When he confessed to the girl he liked, she didn’t explicitly refuse. She just said things like “I don’t want to fall in love” or “I have no plans to fall in love for the time being.” What’s the best thing to do in this situation?
Next, let’s start from the motivation of girls and understand the reasons why girls “don’t want to fall in love”:
1. It is not convenient for girls to fall in love
A girl may have unfinished studies or family restrictions, which makes it difficult for her to fall in love.
In this case, instead of waiting, you might as well improve yourself and make progress with her during the waiting time. In this way, when she has finished what she is doing and wants to fall in love, you will be the first person she thinks of.
2. Girls don’t like you enough
Those girls who have never been in love are in a state of waiting for love. And you're not particularly attracted to her. She may have a crush on you, but it's not to the point where she's attracted to you. So, she rejects you for reasons like this.
If you want to chase this kind of girl, you must not be in a hurry, and you must always control your neediness. Don't have a strong purpose when getting along with her. Start as a friend. The more you experience in life, the closer the relationship will naturally be.
3. Girls are in a window period
Previous failed emotional experiences have made them cautious.
While shouting "I never want to fall in love again", I am also looking forward to meeting another right person. This is also the actual situation of most girls.
In fact, the same is true for men. Who makes the essence of human beings really fragrant?
When other couples show off their affection together, do their eyes show longing and longing?
Does she often share some lonely thoughts on social networks, such as "If you stay single for a long time, you will lose love and being loved?" The ability to love, I still don’t know how to like someone.”
Or you can post some literary pictures about scenery or travel, and the text should be as pretentious as possible. In extreme cases, posts can be deleted in seconds, and even the previous circle of friends will be cleared.
You know, at this time, they need a spiritual sustenance.
Especially girls during the window period, in order to make themselves independent and not rely on someone, it is easy to become dependent on something to divert their attention.
Therefore they will developSome fixed habits, or hobbies.
For example, if you want to improve yourself, you used to be a carefree girl, but now you decide to be a refined girl.
Or trying to be cool, thinking that we girls can do what men do, such as skateboarding, diving, or even challenge some extreme sports.
If you want to catch her, you can start with her hobbies, integrate into the same circle as her, and have some chats when you get along.
