Many people blame their lack of money for not being able to chase girls. When it comes to what kind of boys girls like? The first reaction is "handsome and rich". In fact, not all girls are so materialistic, and it doesn't cost a lot of money to chase girls.
1. Materials are only needed for marriage
There are many blind dates around us, An example of a boy who doesn’t have much money, but the couple is very loving.
In fact, as long as a girl loves you enough and can see a future in you, then she will be willing to transform you from a fantasy little girl into a pragmatic great wife.
And there is an essential difference between falling in love and getting married. Love considers emotional value, so if you want to chase a girl and fall in love with her, all you need to do is to make her happy and be able to It provides food and clothing and satisfies her aesthetic taste.
Only when you get married will you consider the value of reproduction and survival, because only when the relationship between two people gradually becomes closer and the integration of their lives will be implemented in trivial matters such as firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, and tea. And from your perspective, you don’t want a girl you really love to suffer with you.
2. Don’t care too much about relationships
There are often examples of men and women who are in a good relationship. But when it came to talking about marriage, many differences arose, and there were not a few people who broke up unhappy because of this.
Some women try every possible means to add their names to the wedding room
Some men are so preoccupied that they want their husbands to provide less betrothal gifts
Some women come to marry before Sudden request for additional betrothal gifts
Some men take advantage of girls getting pregnant before marriage to bargain heavily on the betrothal gifts
The men feel that the women are overbearing and pushy; the women feel that the men are unwilling to pay and are not sincere at all. .
I really want to tell people in love that feelings cannot be calculated or mixed with half-hearted hypocrisy!
As for those who always talk about love, feelings, and morality, But they are doing things that are just a waste of money. This kind of person is not worth your time.
3. What girls want more than money is love and a sense of security
In the process of getting along with girls If you are not willing to pay for it at all and feel that it is too expensive for girls to spend money on cosmetics and high-end clothes, but you are willing to spend money when eating and playing games with friends, how can such behavior gain the sincerity of girls? In fact, if If a girl really loves you, she won't let you spend too much money.
After all, girls are emotional thinkers. They focus on the feelings in the process rather than the results. And not all girls are so materialisticQuality, compared to material things, most girls are still more concerned about whether you can give her love and security.
To sum up, it takes a lot of money to chase girls. Even if you don’t have money now, as long as you have a motivated heart and can give her the feeling she wants, you can still chase your dream. of girls.
