Because many boys don’t understand girls’ psychology, they mistake a girl’s reserve for rejection and a girl’s rejection for reserve. Of course, the result is misunderstanding and regret. Below I will share with you what to do when a girl doesn't like you. If you find that a girl doesn't like you, there is no need to pester her.
1. You take the initiative to send messages, but she never replies
Let’s say that you usually take the initiative to send messages to a girl, but she doesn’t even reply to you. At this time, you should stop sending her messages. This means that it’s not that you didn’t see it but that you really don’t want to reply. At this point, if you really like her, you can extend the front. Take some time to cool down to complete your own growth.
Also, don’t put all your eggs in the same basket. Because she is not the only girl in the world who deserves your love, and she should not be the only one in your world. In this way, your attention will be dispersed a lot, and you won't care whether she replies to your message or whether she cares about you. Think about it, if more than ten girls all have a crush on you, would you still care about this one girl who has no crush on you?
I’m afraid not, it’s because you have to be excellent to have the initiative in your relationship.
2. Draw clear boundaries in social circles
What does it mean to draw clear boundaries in girls’ social circles? That is to say, girls block your circle of friends, block your updates, and deliberately avoid interacting with you. When everyone goes out to play together, they will pay attention to avoid the chance of appearing in the same frame as you. She even found an excuse not to go to the party when she heard you were going, which means she is really not interested in you or even hates you.
At this time, it is already obvious that the girl does not like you, so there is no need to be hot-faced and cold-butt. You don’t need to be led by her. Living a good life according to your own mood is better than anything else.
3. Be rational and realistic with you
What does it mean for a girl to be rational and realistic with you? It seems that when you chat with her, you can only "discuss the matter". You only have business matters, and the chat has no meaning at all. As long as you want to talk about something else, a girl will change the topic or stop talking because she doesn't want to talk about personal matters with you at all.
When a girl likes you, she will become very "cute", "silly" and "little girl", but when you feel only "mature, calm and inferential", this means that the girl's perceptual system is not activated. . If she doesn't like it, she won't be sentimental, and sentimentality will produce a childish, cute and clingy feeling.
If a girl behaves as above, it only means that she doesn’t like you at this moment, but it doesn’t mean that she won’t like you in the future either. you. Because I have helped many brothers get out of singles, the girls who used to look down on me are now chasing boys. This shows that "like" also comes in stages. For example, you were not good enough at that time.Now that your handsomeness is getting better and better, she will pursue you in turn. This is human nature.
