Many boys pursue the girl they like with a sincere heart, but what they get in return is a lukewarm attitude from the girl. To be honest, it is very hurtful. Are you ready to give up? The girl will be enthusiastic about you and give you hope. You are ready to go further, but you find that the girl has an indifferent attitude towards you. What is the reason for this? In fact, it's a bit like being led by a girl and being played around by her. So how can I tell if the girl I like is lukewarm to me or is using you as a backup?
1. Have an indifferent attitude towards you
Maybe a girl doesn’t like you very much at the beginning, but she will not refuse your pursuit and will chat with you. I will also meet you for dinner, and even try to be with you. Boys must think that they have succeeded at this time, because this kind of feedback from girls is a sign of accepting your performance. But if you get in touch with her, you will find that girls are still lukewarm towards you, and they still have the same attitude that it doesn't matter if they have you or not. It feels like you are in love and you are not in love, there is no difference at all.
2. She will take the initiative if you are ready to give up
If a boy discovers problems in your relationship at this time , ask a girl if she likes you when she is with you. The girl will usually reply that she has no feelings for anyone, and then thinks that you understand her, which is good... Okay, since everything If you don’t feel it anymore, forget it. When you originally planned to give up like this, a girl suddenly comes to you and starts talking to you. Then you tentatively ask her why she is trying to be together if she doesn’t have feelings for you, and then she will say that she doesn’t actually have feelings for you at all. Yes, and then you desperately hope again...and then you are lukewarm again, sometimes enthusiastic, sometimes indifferent.
3. In addition to you, you are also in contact with other boys
If that kind of guy is not cold to you If you are not hot, she will use you as a backup. Then she will be in contact with other boys besides you. She calls you a good friend of the opposite sex. She will even ask you if you mind if she hangs out with friends of the opposite sex. On the surface, she behaves He is aboveboard, but he may be teasing other little brothers behind his back.
4. Girls who are good at flirting but just don’t flirt with you
A girl who is lukewarm towards you If she treats you as a backup, then she will definitely be good at flirting, but after being with you, she won't flirt with you anymore. You will find that when you get together with mutual friends and a large group of people chat together, she will chat actively with other people in the group, but she ignores your feelings as if she doesn't see you... Actually It's not that she doesn't know how to love, she just doesn't give love to you, so what's the difference between you being together and not being together?
Finally, I would like to warn boys, when you find that the girl you like is lukewarm towards me, you should correct your attitude. There is nothing wrong with liking someone, but in order to like someone Just kneel down and lick her without any principles, and even if you don't say it, you can't make the girl change her mind.
