Many friends will choose to arrange to meet their parents during the Chinese New Year, because this way they can cancel the blind dates arranged by their parents. So what do we need to do when we meet our parents? Today the editor brings you the first meeting What should the girl’s parents talk about? If you are going to meet the girl’s parents during the Chinese New Year this year, don’t miss it.
Here the editor summarizes the 5 do’s and 9 don’ts. If you know them in advance, you can effectively avoid pitfalls.
5 things to do:
1. Be sincere, don’t lie, exaggerate, or be vain.
2. Use honorifics such as "you" when speaking to elders.
3. Look into the elders’ eyes when answering their questions.
4. When chatting, be neither humble nor overbearing. Don’t be submissive and be bold.
5. Boys should speak loudly and clearly, and girls should speak generously and steadily.
9 Don’t:
1. Don’t be self-righteous and express yourself too much.
2. Don’t interrupt the elders’ speech, just listen with humility and patience.
3. Don’t talk back or argue with your elders.
4. Don’t talk too much. If you are too noisy, you will make mistakes if you talk too much.
5. Don’t talk about religion, the other person’s family privacy and other taboo topics.
6. Don’t complain about anything bad about your girlfriend, even if you are joking.
7. Don’t be too outspoken. Think carefully before answering when asked by elders.
8. Don’t treat yourself as an outsider, and don’t speak too casually.
9. Try not to talk about topics that you don’t understand or your elders don’t understand.
Topics to chat with elders:
1. Talk about body and health
< p> How are uncle and auntie’s health lately? I read on the Internet that regular massage of Neiguan point is good for the heart. You can try it on a regular basis.2. Praise the person you talk to when they were young
XX is usually very enthusiastic and kind-hearted. This is what I admire most about her. Was she like this when she was a child?
3. Talk about hobbies and talk more about things you are familiar with
I heard from XX that you usually like to play chess. I also like playing chess, but my chess skills are not good. I wonder if you would like to play chess. Willing to teach me.
4. Talk about traveling and what you do in daily life
I heard from XX that uncle and aunt love traveling. I will make arrangements for you and my wife in advance where you want to go next time.
The above is all about what to talk about when meeting the girl’s parents for the first time. I hope it can help you.
