Chasing girls is something that many boys will experience, but why do they always find it so difficult? The following are some of my personal opinions:
1. Fear of rejection
The biggest problem when pursuing a girl is The psychological burden is the fear of rejection. If you are really rejected, not only will you be hit, but it may also affect your relationship with the other person. Therefore, many boys are hesitant when pursuing girls.
2. Don’t know how to express yourself
Although some boys like a girl in their hearts, they don’t know how to express their feelings to her. They may feel that they are not good enough or lack self-confidence, so they are afraid to take the initiative.
3. Worry about hurting the other person
Some boys may not particularly like a girl, but they want to try to pursue her. However, in the process, they may find that they don't actually like each other that much, or that there are some insurmountable obstacles between the two. At this time, they will worry about hurting each other's feelings.
4. Lack of communicative skills
Some boys may not be afraid of rejection, but because they lack communicative skills. They may not know how to start a conversation with a girl, or how to maintain their charm during a relationship.
5. The other party already has a boyfriend
Finally, there is another situation where the other party already has a boyfriend. At this time, even if you like her again, there is no chance. In this case, you can only silently wish the other person happiness.
Chasing girls is indeed a difficult thing. But if you really like a girl, you should be brave enough to pursue her. No matter what the result is, at least you have tried and made yourself more mature and stronger.
Although chasing girls is difficult, it is not insurmountable. As long as you have enough courage and confidence, you can successfully chase the girl you like. At the same time, you should also pay attention to respecting each other's feelings during the pursuit, and do not hurt other people's feelings easily.
