College is the easiest time in life to fall in love, but chasing girls also requires certain skills and patience. This article will introduce how long it usually takes to chase girls in college and three ways to get out of singles quickly.
1. Understand yourself and the other person (time: 1 week-1 month)
While pursuing a person Before dating a girl, you must first understand yourself and the other person's situation. This includes your own interests, hobbies, personality traits, career plans, etc., and you must also understand the other party's preferences, personality, family background, etc. By understanding both parties' circumstances, pursuit plans can be better formulated and unnecessary embarrassment and misunderstandings can be avoided.
2. Show your own advantages (time: 1-2 months)
After understanding the other party, you need to show your own advantages. This includes appearance, talent, ability and other aspects. You can attract the other person's attention by dressing appropriately, participating in social activities, displaying talents, etc. At the same time, be careful not to be too showy or show off, otherwise it will be counterproductive.
3. Manage your relationship carefully (time: months to years)
If you want to maintain your relationship for a long time, you need to manage it carefully. This includes paying attention to the other person's life, listening to the other person's voice, providing support and encouragement, etc. At the same time, you should also be careful not to rely too much on the other person and maintain your independence and personality.
Chasing girls requires certain skills and patience. Understanding yourself and the other person, showing your own advantages and managing your relationship carefully are three ways to get out of singles quickly. But everyone's situation is different, and you need to plan accordingly and be sincere and candid in your pursuit.
