After we have gone on many blind dates, we will definitely receive various reasons for rejection, such as you are too ugly, too poor, not suitable for the job, have inconsistent views, etc. If a girl tells you that our personalities are not suitable for you during a blind date, is it necessary to continue?
< strong> 1. Don’t rush to confirm the relationship
Unsuitable personality is just a reason for girls to reject you. In fact, how can someone who has just known you for a few days completely see through your personality. So you should first get to know each other as friends for a while, and don't rush to confirm a relationship with a girl.
Even if a girl has a slight liking for you, it is difficult for her to make a decision to be with you because she doesn’t know much about you. Next, you should slow down your pace, care about her slowly, and make her feel comfortable in your relationship.
2. Find common topics
Another reason why a girl says her personality is inappropriate is that she feels she has nothing to say to you and it is awkward to get along with you. Therefore, when we get along as friends, we should look for more common topics and not always stay silent.
In addition, you also need to know what girls want. If a girl likes rich guys and you are not, then give up as soon as possible. If a girl likes interesting people, but you have a dull personality, then you should learn to find topics with humor, so that she will change her view of you.
If a girl doesn’t like you at first sight, it will be difficult for her to like you again, unless you can make her do something big. change. If a girl politely rejects you and you still struggle with her and don't work hard to improve yourself, the girl will only think that you are not self-aware. If you can't do that, you should leave as soon as possible. After all, going on a blind date is a very straightforward matter, and it depends on whether it succeeds or not.
It is difficult to fall in love and get married through a blind date. After all, fate requires the efforts of two people. Rather than spending time to impress her, it is better to spend more money on dressing up and giving a girl a good first impression.
