Ambiguousness is a vague emotional state that often leaves people confused. Before a relationship develops between two people, there will often be a period of ambiguity. So, how to confirm the relationship? How to end the ambiguity and confirm the relationship? Several aspects will be discussed below.
1. Clearly express your feelings
To confirm a relationship, you first need to make it clear how you feel about the other person , and expressed it bravely. Whether you like or love, you should tell each other frankly. Only when you know each other's true feelings can you further explore whether a formal relationship is appropriate.
2. Observe the other person’s behavior and attitude
In addition to your own feelings, observing the other person’s behavior and attitude is also an important way to confirm the relationship. If the other person frequently contacts you, cares about your life, and is willing to share his/her inner world with you, then it is very likely that he/she also has special feelings for you. By observing the other person's behavior and attitude, you can better judge whether the other person is willing to establish a formal relationship with you.
3. Have an in-depth communication with the other party
Before confirming the relationship, it is recommended to have an in-depth communication with the other party. Through communication, we can better understand each other's values, hobbies, living habits and other information. If you find that you have something in common and can understand and support each other, it may be possible to develop a formal relationship.
4. Determine the expectations and goals of both parties
Confirming the relationship also requires clarifying whether the expectations and goals of both parties are consistent. If you're hoping for a stable, long-term relationship, but the other person is just looking for fun or a short-term companionship, then it's likely that you won't be able to reach an agreement. Therefore, before confirming a relationship, you should talk frankly with the other person about your expectations and goals, and listen to the other person's opinions.
5. End the ambiguity and confirm the relationship
When the above conditions are met, you can consider ending the ambiguity and confirm the relationship. You can choose a suitable time and place to express your wishes to the other party and ask the other party if they are willing to establish a formal relationship with you. If the other party also has the same intention, congratulations on successfully confirming the relationship!
Confirming a relationship requires clarifying one's own feelings, observing the other party's behavior and attitude, conducting in-depth communication, determining the expectations and goals of both parties, and finally ending the ambiguity and confirming the relationship. I hope the above points can help people who are going through the ambiguous period.