Everyone wants to be with the person they like, but in reality it is often the case that the person you like does not like you, and the person who likes you does not like you, so when faced with such a dilemma, what should you do? How to choose without making mistakes?
Choose someone who likes you but you don’t like. Most of these people are rational. I believe that love must be reciprocated, and we must seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and select the best for admission. People must live, and love can be attached to it. After all, people want to eat fireworks.
But in fact, in reality, choosing to be with someone you don’t like is mostly not the result of a trade-off. The so-called weighing is to select the most suitable person, but the reality... there are not so many fish in our fish pond. Don’t think that choosing to love yourself will guarantee victory.
Just like many girls who have been told by their parents since childhood to find a man who loves them, they don’t have to live so hard. She is no longer working hard, but she is working hard for a group of honest people.
The same goes for boys. There is a high probability that they will not refuse a girl who pursues them. Psychology calls this loss aversion. Simply put, losing is more painful than gaining. Even if I give you 500 yuan, it can't make up for the pain of losing 500 yuan. This is not scum, this is human nature. But there are also people who hope for pure love without realistic factors and look forward to a vigorous love. Just like you who are reading the article, you probably have the same idea. I believe in love at first sight and pure liking.
The more serious moth flies towards the scumbag, the love cannot be burned out, but it will be born again when the spring breeze blows. Resolutely choose a girl you like but have no feelings for you. Most of these people love first. Even though he may compromise, he still believes in his true love. How sad it is, I won’t describe it here. Everyone is in the game and understands.
If I were asked to choose, I would most likely choose the one I like. The only difference is that I won't compromise, I will find a way to make the other person like me too.
Love, it is beautiful when two people are happy. Some people say it's too difficult. If it were easy to have it, would we still like it? As an important part of life, love is worth our time and energy to pursue. Give up this part today, give up that part tomorrow, love will always be passive to you, it will never come.
It’s not that you have to choose what you like. This is not the original intention of this article. I just want to tell everyone that no matter which one we choose, we cannot just sit back and enjoy the benefits, and we must work hard to maintain it. There is no such thing as once-and-for-all love.
Finally, share a poem with everyone.
This is my heart, where everything grows miraculously. Later, when you came here for a walk, it was barren and barren.
It’s desolate and miserable, right?
Then it’s better to read it again in reverse.
Emotions are just like this poem. What we think is miserable may not really be miserable. Maybe it would be beautiful if we change our thinking and methods.
Learn to manage love slowly, and love will give you a good result in return.
