If what you give me is the same as what you give to others, then I don’t want it. ——Sanmao. From this sentence of writer Sanmao, you may be able to get a glimpse of what a girl's preference means. She expects your love for her to be partial, unique, and unique.
What does it mean when a girl wants to be partial?
The basis of love is understanding and tolerance. If you must train the other party to have no bottom line and tolerate you, then you must be prepared for the other party to have the same bottom line as you at any time and in anything.
The so-called preference that girls want is better to say that they want the other person to never leave her no matter what she does, and even if she leaves, she will no longer be able to love others. Is this wanting love? This is asking for infinitely, and by the way, it will destroy the other person.
Girls’ overly demanding preference is essentially the domestication of men.
What kind of love is preference
1. Pampering. Many boys like to talk logic and reason with their girlfriends in love, but girls don't like this because she cares more about the feelings and approval in love.
2. A sense of security. Security does not come from love, but from preference.
3. Priority. Preference means that when I need you, you can drop everything to accompany me, instead of saying that you are playing games and I need you to prioritize me.
4. Unique. The preference I want is the only one. If the love you have for me can also be given to others, then I will not be rare for such love.
5. Exceptions. The so-called preference means that you can make exceptions for me, change your habits and break the rules because of me.
6. Accommodate. Preference means that no matter what I do wrong, you will forgive me and accommodate me.
It can be seen from the above that the so-called preference is more like selfish love, letting the other party love without reservation and letting yourself be loved forever. This is not love, but a kind of unlimited request in the name of love. Selfish mentality.
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Emotional sentences about preference
1. If the whole world betrays you, I will stand by you The whole world around you is betrayed. If the whole world is your enemy, I will definitely favor you.
2. It’s not you who’s wrong, it’s the world that’s wrong.
3. I still want to love even if I don’t listen. Love harder to make you understand.
4. I like it if I like it, why hide?
5. I prefer the absurdity of writing poetry to the absurdity of not writing poetry.
