When going on a blind date, we will inevitably encounter some cold girls. Some are not interested in you, and some may have a slow personality. So when a girl takes the initiative to say that she has a slow-warming personality during a blind date, how should I pursue her?
1. Girls don’t take the initiative It doesn’t mean that you should be used as a spare tire
For a certain type of girl, she doesn’t take the initiative because she is not used to doing it and doesn’t know how to do it. Therefore, when facing girls who are slow to warm up, boys must learn to take the initiative.
2. Observe whether a girl likes you
If a girl likes you, for the first time A dater usually won't rush to pay for it, or even reject your invitation on the day; but if you make an invitation the next day, she will definitely come out and take the initiative to share the cost of the date.
If a girl doesn’t have feelings for you, she may not meet for a second time. Of course, even if they meet, it doesn't mean they like you. They may be treating you as a backup, which requires good judgment on your part.
3. Grind slowly
Girls say they are slow to warm up, maybe they don’t like you. , but for various reasons, I don’t want to reject you right away. But you are not without opportunities. As long as you are willing to spend money and work hard, girls may choose you in the end. This type of girl has relatively high material needs. If you cannot meet her conditions, you may end up getting the good guy card.
It is not ruled out that a girl may really have a slow-tempered personality, but I believe you can feel it yourself whether she has a crush on you. But in most cases, when girls say they are slow to warm up, they just don’t have feelings for you. The most important criterion is not whether you can ask her out, but whether she is willing to take the initiative.
If a girl’s initiative is just to maintain basic social interactions and basically deal with you, it means that she thinks you have some value, but she doesn’t like you enough. So don't think that if a girl doesn't reject you, you have feelings for her. When you meet a girl who claims to be slow, you should either grind her off or give up as soon as possible.
