Contemporary young people’s views on marriage. Why do more and more young people choose not to get married? More and more young people choose to be single and live alone. These young people are willing to keep pets, or put their emotions on other things to find spiritual sustenance. There is also a type of young people who are willing to fall in love but not get married. They enjoy the sweetness of love and do not want to enter the palace of marriage. So why does this happen? I have the following three views.
Single addiction
One thing that single addicts have in common is that they have been able to work on their own or Complete your own emotional and emotional cycles within existing circles. They do not need more emotional communication and are relatively closed in their hearts and lives. Sometimes we chat with friends and talk about love. Because we are all satisfied with being single, we subconsciously think, "What's the point of being in love? Isn't it good to make money?" People who have been single for a long time will have their own interests and hobbies. The circle of friends allows them to exchange interests and hobbies, and falling in love is not as attractive to them as going out for a meal with friends and sharing what they like.
Marriage phobia
Maybe it is Internet marketing, or it may be the misfortune of love and marriage of people around you. Replacement price. They do not feel that the value of love is enough to replace today's stable life. Sometimes I see hot searches on Weibo about the case of someone killing his wife, someone committing domestic violence and jumping off a building, killing his wife and cheating on insurance, sky-high betrothal gifts, and high education fees. These are big mountains that weigh on the shoulders of young people.
The love period is sweet, but once you are exposed to tea, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, great changes will occur. Nowadays, the cost of getting married is very high. How to raise children after marriage and the high education fees for raising children also give young people a headache. Once everything is about profit, it becomes less pure.
Gender Orientation
Nowadays, the Internet age is very developed. I believe everyone should understand the terms gay and straight. Plus, there’s trans and asexuality. Asexual people have no idea about love and may even feel disgusted by too close contact. Something very similar to asexuality is called asexual asexuality. This kind of love can only be felt when the other person doesn't like you. Once the other person has the idea of ????liking you, you will no longer like the other person.
The above three points only represent personal opinions. All in all, financial pressure, personal preferences, and living environment will all have an impact on young people's views on love, leading to them falling in love without getting married, or simply staying single without falling in love. Young people whose native families are happy and have no material pressure are relatively more willing to fall in love and get married.
