When chatting with girls at night, they usually end the chat by saying good night to each other, but sometimes boys will encounter situations where they say good night to girls but do not reply. Does this mean that the relationship is not good? Are you cool?
1. Does it mean that a girl is cool if she doesn’t reply to you?
You must know that everyone is an independent individual with their own living habits. When some girls feel sleepy at night, they may just sleep as soon as they want, so it is normal not to see your good night. , but in this case, she will usually explain the reason the next day. If there is no explanation, you can also find a suitable opportunity to communicate with her directly about the matter, and tell her how you expect her to make a choice, but remember Don't forcefully change the other person, and don't let your differences plant the seeds of estrangement in your heart.
Of course, there is another situation, that is, girls don’t take boys to heart, and think that boys’ good night is dispensable, so they don’t care much about it. Moreover, many girls think that “good night” is just “good night”. I love you", and she is not interested in you, so it is normal not to reply to your good night. So how to solve this situation?
2. How to solve the problem of girls not replying when boys say good night
1. Establish attraction
First, reflect on why girls are not interested in you, and then Go talk to her again in three to five days and start by establishing the most basic attraction.
You can start the topic based on the girl’s hobbies and daily work, such as a certain celebrity you both like, a certain attraction you have visited, a certain game you have played, and a certain book you have read. , majors you have studied, etc. will expand the chat scene, deepen your chat content, and increase mutual emotional resonance, because when your life experience and value orientation are the same, you will establish a connection and it will be easy to get closer.
2. Deepen and consolidate attraction
Re-examine your relationship and control your sense of need. If you don’t Just because of the exposed need, you can ask her friends or besties side by side, and then don't rush to find the girl to express your sincerity, but spend a certain amount of time to make changes.
When chatting with girls, reduce the frequency of chatting, and don’t keep chatting around one topic. Learn to observe the core needs of girls (emotional comfort, security, vanity, care and concern). etc.), follow these to mobilize girls' emotions and interests, sublimate and consolidate attraction.
3. Take the initiative to get closer
Girls are passive and will not take the initiative to tell boys that I like you, so I need you.Take the initiative to close the relationship. There are many standards for girls to test a boy, such as whether he is motivated, whether he is clean and tidy, whether he is responsible, whether he is optimistic, etc. Compare your shortcomings and make more corrections.
