Whether it is interpersonal communication or chasing girls, self-confidence is very important. A confident person always has a strong aura, which makes people respect him. So how to train your self-confidence?
1. Be sure of yourself, be humble, and give yourself the right to make confident decisions
How to make yourself strong and confident ?A person's self-confidence comes from self-evaluation, which is simply a feeling. This feeling doesn't always feel real. Like other feelings, everyone has their own evaluation criteria. But we always define our feelings by other people's standards. We are definitely not willing to give our things to others in real life, but unknowingly, when dealing with self-confidence, we leave things related to our inner peace to others.
2. Remember not to compare your own shortcomings with the advantages of others, and compare the shortcomings with the advantages.
Just like Tian Ji’s horse racing, comparing your own shortcomings with the advantages of others will definitely lead to complete defeat. People are different, and they have their own strengths and weaknesses. When we look at others , often staring at the advantages of others, making invisible comparisons, trying to verify their own inner views, and find suitable reasons for their own failures. Psychologically, this is a kind of psychological defense. Success is not achieved overnight. Those people They are also ordinary people, made of flesh and blood, and their inner strength is accumulated step by step, so look at their starting point, not their end point at a glance, or even the past at a glance, only what they looked like when they succeeded.
3. Be down-to-earth, start with small things first, and accumulate confidence
How to make yourself strong and confident? To do things down-to-earth, you must first start from a small thing and accumulate confidence, instead of just looking at other people's success, other people's glorious appearance, and how others perform colorfully on the stage. Don't forget that they also started from a small thing. Only if you have the opportunity to do big things later, you must be Alibaba from the beginning, and be Li Ka-shing from the beginning, and why not look at how the aunts who open the supermarket next door deal with daily shipments and replenishment, and keep the money in their accounts, dreams are what they are. , but dreams need to be watered with a drop of sweat. Without a little bit of success, there is no little bit of self-confidence. How can we have a strong heart?
Without the accumulation of self-confidence, there is no inner strength, let alone It has its own halo. Perhaps self-confidence, inner strength, and aura in interpersonal communication are enviable qualities, but after all, these belong to others. Instead of retreating and building a network, it is better to find your own confidence, make your heart stronger, and show your aura. This is what we should do.
