Some boys are more introverted. When they meet a girl they like, they are nervous and shy even to speak, let alone muster up the courage to pursue her. What should you do if you are an introvert but feel nervous and shy when talking to girls?
1. Overcome your heart
When It is normal for us to feel shy and fearful when facing a girl we like. Many boys are afraid that girls will not like their type, they are afraid that they will say the wrong thing and make her hate them, they are afraid that they cannot give her happiness, etc.
But you have to work hard to know the result. If you do nothing from the beginning, then girls will definitely not like you. Even if you happen to be her type, she won't know you as a person. So we must first improve our self-confidence and strive to pursue happiness.
2. Understand girls’ psychology
The most common psychology of girls: boys don’t take the initiative = they don’t like it.
Some boys have a very passive personality. If a girl doesn’t take the initiative to look for him, he will feel that she doesn’t like him, so he hides his love in his heart and dare not show it. Some people even think that a girl takes the initiative just because she has a good personality and treats everyone like this, rather than because she likes herself.
Many introverted boys always live in their own world and do not think from others' perspective. They think that girls don’t like it because they don’t take the initiative. In fact, girls think the same way. After all, you can't hide your love. If you hide it in your heart, it will only make her mistakenly think that you don't like her. As long as you take the initiative, girls will definitely feel it.
3. Create opportunities to talk
If you like a girl you are not familiar with, have more contact with her and let her know your existence. If it is a girl you are familiar with, learn more about her preferences and find topics to chat about. At the very least we should add the girl’s WeChat account and exchange a few words. If you can't do this, then stay alone.
4. Don’t make excuses for yourself
When you like a girl, don’t always find reasons to reject her. Contact her. For example, she is too busy with work now and is not busy having a girlfriend, or she recently said she doesn't want to fall in love, so forget it.
Even if we are not very good at chatting with girls or communicating with others, no matter how busy or tired we are at work, it is not a reason not to take the initiative. If you avoid her for these reasons, it only means you don't like her enough.
Many times we are afraid to do something because we are afraid of failure, but when we actually do it, we will find that everything is different from what we thought. Maybe you worked up the courage to chat, but the other party ignored you, or blocked you directly, but at least you were brave.
The most regretful thing in lifeIt's not that I lost her despite my efforts, but that I never tried hard and never got her. Liking makes people brave and makes the impossible possible.
