Many boys only know that when they meet a girl they like, they should be brave enough to pursue it, but they don’t know what the girl’s attitude towards their pursuit is, and they don’t know whether their pursuit method is correct. Below I will share with you an analysis of what girls mean by their attitudes towards suitors.
1. Rejection on the outside and hesitation on the inside
When a normal girl is pursued by a boy, she is actually very happy inside. Some people like to explain that they are attractive, but no one will. Not happy. But when a girl is being pursued, she will also feel worried and panic deep in her heart. She has a mentality of refusing to welcome a boy who breaks into her peaceful life. Because unless a girl falls in love with a boy at first sight, it is not easy for her to develop feelings for a boy, so when she faces a boy's pursuit, she will wonder in her heart whether you are worthy of her liking.
Because girls are actually afraid of being hurt emotionally. If the girl you pursue rejects you on the surface, she may be hesitating in her heart. She wants to spend more time getting to know you in depth before she can accept you, so you be patient.
If you act like "I'm here to pick you up" as soon as you go up, then the girl will notice you. Intention, the feelings towards you will be greatly reduced, and she may even start to dislike you. At the same time, you will also lose the attraction that makes her curious about you, and directly give the dominance to the other party.
Many times, we have to think about it from the perspective of a girl. When you are pursuing a girl, you chase her vigorously, often give her things, and slowly let everyone around her know. If you are interested in her, think about how much pressure this will put on girls.
When pursuing the girl you like, you must have a "moisturize everything quietly" mentality and slowly let both parties reach the comfort zone, so that no matter whether she becomes your "girlfriend" in the end, she will be Your "good friend" will make you more comfortable in the process.
2. Refuse thoroughly
If a boy is pursuing a girl, the girl will hardly reply when he chats with her, or she will reply perfunctorily to you; you will never ask her out when you ask her out. Even if you don't come out, there will always be various excuses to reject you; if you confess your love to a girl, she will say it's inappropriate, if you say you want to get along with her again, she will say it's not necessary... In short, the girl will reject you completely.
Girls will either completely refuse your offer to a suitor they don’t like, or simply squeeze out all the benefits from you. The former often appears in unexperienced girls: they are too thin-skinned and don't like to take advantage of you: they have to rush to pay for meals, and they have to reciprocate gifts immediately. The latter may appear in slightly more mature girls: they know how to utilize resources and are well versed in secular rules. Therefore, they will not be ashamed of your efforts, but enjoy it with peace of mind.
Therefore, when boys are pursuing a girl, they still have to see how the girl treats you. Only then will you know whether it is possible for you to pursue her, and then decide whether to continue pursuing her.