In the process of chasing girls, we still need to learn some skills and know some taboos about chasing girls, so that we can avoid many detours in the process of chasing girls. Below I will share with you the things you should not do when chasing girls. After reading this, you will know how to chase girls.
What you should not do when chasing a girl
The more you want to chase a girl, the more you should not do five things:
First, don’t be too proactive
Many boys chase girls because they are too proactive. They take the initiative to chat with her every day, and take the initiative to like and comment every day. Do you think this is the case? You can chase her by doing it, but a girl doesn't think this is love. If a boy can gain love by taking the initiative, then why do you get rejected even if you take the initiative? So when chasing a girl, you can't just be passionate, you need to be skillful in chasing her.
Second, you cannot give gifts
You think that giving gifts can please girls. In fact, it is quite the opposite. A good girl will not accept gifts from others casually. Your Gifts will only put pressure on her and reduce her favorability towards you. Of course, if you meet a scumbag or a money-worshiping girl, although she seems happy when you give her a gift, as if you gave her the right gift, in the future it will be a bottomless pit, and she will think about it every time you date. If you give her a gift, she won't be happy if the gift is cheap. The key is that your relationship has not progressed. No matter how many gifts you give, you can't catch her.
Third, don’t ask out too quickly
Many boys mistakenly believe that asking out is the fastest way to chase a girl. Method, actually, invitations are actions that a girl can take only after she has established a good impression on you. If a girl doesn’t have a good impression of you yet and you start asking out invitations non-stop, then she will definitely stay away from you. Yes, you won't get love just by being nice to girls. You have to learn to attract and lead. Girls will come to you without you having to take the initiative.
Fourth, don’t try to impress girls
Never think that just because you really like a girl and are sincerely good to her can impress her. The person you like is not this person. I must like you for your reasons. Love is not a moral kidnapping. Everyone has the right to choose. Some boys have paid a lot for girls, and they are moved. However, the girls do not appreciate it, and instead find the boys annoying. This is a typical example of how being touched cannot bring about love.
Fifth, don’t make the timeline too long
The time it takes for a boy to chase a girl is usually about one week to two months. Don’t make the timeline too long. , so that you and the girl will easily fall into the friendship zone. In the end, you will not be in love but become friends. How many people are deeply in love with another person as a friend. What's more, you may be raped by a girlUsed as a spare tire, the result is nothing.
