If a man pursues a woman in love, it will definitely be difficult and he will have to go through many difficulties and obstacles. In the process of chasing girls, most of the mistakes boys make are to stick to each other 24 hours a day, asking them all the time about who they met and what they did, without giving girls any time and space to breathe. You must know that pushing girls too hard will have the opposite effect and make girls feel disgusted.
Since you have decided to pursue this girl, why not set the line longer and give the girl sufficient time and trust? When chasing a girl, be sure not to be too enthusiastic and sometimes cold, so that the girl can You feel that your life is completely inseparable from her, and you always put her first in everything you do, regardless of the consequences. There are also skills in chasing girls. Grasping these three points is more effective than stalking.
1. There should be a certain time interval between replying messages
Many boys start chasing a girl. Sometimes, in order to show that you value a girl, you will reply immediately once the girl sends a message. If this phenomenon continues, girls will think that you care too much about her and are just trying to be overly attentive. Instead, girls will feel that you can't live without her, and they will gradually lose interest in you and become indifferent to you. Come.
The best way to chase a girl is to stay away from her. You must fully control the speed of replying to the girl's messages. You should neither be too enthusiastic nor too cold. Learn to be moderate in everything, so as to arouse her interest.
2. Don’t always compromise
In the process of chasing girls, girls must be coaxed of. Excessive tolerance will make girls feel that you have no bottom line at all. They will have ideas that challenge you, and they may even do things that you can't stand, or they may lose your temper without caring about your face.
At the beginning, you may feel that you are doing it for love, but as time goes by, you will find it unbearable. In the end, your feelings for the girl will fall apart, and your relationship will come to an end. Therefore, it is very important for girls to know that you have someone with a bottom line, so that she can respect your personality and your ideas.
3. Don’t have to take the initiative all the time
Although it is said that in a relationship, Taking the initiative means that the relationship is half won, but being too proactive and overbearing will make girls feel unable to breathe, and boys will be too controlling and will feel a little afraid of you in the end. Don't many boys think this is great? In fact, if you push a girl too hard, it will often make it difficult for the girl to breathe. In the end, she will run away from you, so that she will slowly fade out of your life. When chasing a girl, when you should take the initiative, you should also give in appropriately when you should give in.
