Many boys have various fantasies about their significant other before falling in love. So if there is a girl who likes you, but she is not your ideal type, should you accept her in this situation?
Many boys think about love too complicatedly, thinking that only by finding a girl who meets their needs can they live a happy life, but in reality Where can you find such a suitable girl for you? And although many boys have previously advertised what kind of girlfriend they want to find in the future, in the end they will find that the girl they are with is different from the image they have in mind. Very far. Why does this happen?
This is because people have the psychological characteristic of reverse rationalization. When you like someone or accept someone, you will ignore their shortcomings and shortcomings. I still remember that when Huang Bo first debuted, many people ridiculed him and said he was too ugly. Now more than ten years have passed, and not many people care whether he is ugly or not, because he continues to appear in excellent works, and now he has become a woman killer. Although he is not handsome, he is lovable.
This is why girls know that bad men are scumbags, but they still pounce on them without hesitation, because women like the advantages of "bad" men, and they will let go of the "bad" men indefinitely. shortcomings, his shortcomings will be reverse rationalized.
Should I accept that the girl chasing me is not my type? In fact, falling in love is very simple. As long as you feel right, you can still live a sweet life with her even if it does not meet your expectations for your partner. .
Should I accept that the girl chasing me is not my type? Everyone looks forward to the future and always likes to move in a good direction. Think about it, this is correct in itself. It's just that love itself doesn't need to be measured by any rules. As long as it feels right, the feeling will come. There is no need to consider whether it is the type you like. At this point, both boys and girls are like this.
