Regarding blind dates, many people are concerned about whether the blind date can be successful. There is a saying that if a relationship is not confirmed within 21 days of a blind date, there may be little chance. Because the 21 days of blind date are enough for the man and woman to understand each other, and it is also enough for each other to decide whether they want to continue contacting each other. This is what the 21-day blind date law means. However, there are exceptions. Let me focus on explaining the 21-day blind date rule to you.
1. Check the date of the blind date
The 21-day blind date rule actually refers to the time to get to know each other after the blind date. If two people are in different places, the time to see each other after the blind date is relatively small. If so, it would be impossible to get to know each other within 21 days of dating. One is that if you can only communicate through WeChat, the presentation will be very one-sided. Another one is that there is a big difference between online communication and offline communication. Therefore, when it comes to the 21-day blind date rule, you still have to look at the date of the blind date to know when you should be together.
@ Piggy Girl: My boyfriend and I also met through a blind date. We met in August last year and met in October. On the one hand, we later started working in different places, and we didn’t establish our relationship until the Chinese New Year this year. The two of us had very little contact before, but in the beginning neither of us actually liked blind dates. In fact, we were both a bit resistant, so we both had that nonchalant attitude. In addition, I felt that he chatted with me too little. I feel that this boy is not interested in me, and I plan to break off the engagement during the Chinese New Year. But after we meet, we will talk more, and he will talk to me a lot. He is not very good at expressing with words. Together, he did a lot of details very well, and I quite like it.
2. Look at the purpose of blind dates
In fact, many girls nowadays do not want to go on blind dates, or they just want to get in touch and get to know each other. Most girls choose not because they are very eager to get married. Most of them came because their circle was small and they couldn't find suitable people of the opposite sex. They came for a blind date just to be friends. A small number of them still waited for the man to pursue them. That is, they get to know each other through blind dates, and then follow the normal development pattern of boyfriend and girlfriend. So in this case, a girl may not be eager to confirm a relationship with you. Maybe she already has a crush on you, but she still wants to wait to give you more time to get to know you before letting go of being your girlfriend. And the blind date is 21 days If you just agree, it is unlikely, unless you are rich and handsome.
The 21-day blind date rule is actually just an approximate time point. If you want to establish a relationship with the girl you are dating as early as possible, you cannot just rely on chatting. You must go out to play, and ask her out when you are free; and then meet often, preferably every day, so that she can slowly rely on you and get used to being with you, and then you can hope to establish a relationship with her early.
