Some boys can easily succeed in chasing girls, while some boys have always maintained a solo record when chasing girls. In addition to the differences between individual males, there is also the interference of behaviors that make boys lose their value when chasing girls. , it will be very difficult when you are rejected by a girl from the beginning!
1. Lack of opinion
In the eyes of girls - a boy has no independent opinion, which to a certain extent means that the boy has a weak character. A weak character means that he is a marginalized figure in the interpersonal circle (unless the person has very outstanding abilities, but even if he is outstanding) You may be taken advantage of by people around you, unless you meet a true friend who encourages you). Most girls are easily attracted to dazzling men, so it is easy to pass by boys who have no independent opinions.
2. Excessive kneeling and licking
Girls want a love partner who is worthy of their appreciation, admiration, respect and love, not a dispensable licking dog. When you show excessive kneeling and licking when chasing a girl, then not only will you appear to be worthless, but your dignity as a man will have disappeared in her heart, and she will naturally not be able to like you.
3. Self-righteous
I like you so much, why don’t you like me? Girls are confused This is this kind of boy - why are he so confident when he is so ordinary?
Don’t feel inferior in front of girls, and don’t be too conceited! Self-righteous men are often unreliable, hypocritical, and arrogant in the eyes of girls. Yes, the price has dropped.
4. Too low emotional intelligence
When chasing girls, you must chat with girls. If your emotional intelligence is too low, you will not be able to continue chatting with girls, or you will let them go as soon as you chat. When girls are angry and often don't understand their subtext, they will naturally feel that you are worthless. Due to the effect of the strong-willed mentality, girls often will not fall in love with men who are weaker than themselves.
5. Afraid to confess
Although some boys like girls very much, they just dare to talk to girls He engages in ambiguity, dares not take further actions, is always timid to express his feelings, suppresses the love in his heart, and even automatically becomes a girl's backup, becoming an emotional restraint. Usually men who are timid to express their feelings will also make themselves lose their value.
