It's normal for a girlfriend to bump into something occasionally. If she's not serious, she usually just handles it by herself and you won't notice. But if your girlfriend is hurt and sends you a message, she may need your comfort at this time. How do you comfort your girlfriend when she's hurt? Correct comfort promotes feelings!
1. Say nice words to comfort her
@Xiong Zai: My girlfriend and I broke up because she was hurt, and when I comforted her, she didn’t think I was taking it seriously. I didn’t pay enough attention to her. Here’s what happened:
Once my girlfriend fell on her head while on a business trip. I wasn’t around at the time. She told me afterwards that first I asked her if she was okay? Serious or not? She said it was okay, and then I asked for details and found out that she had a bump on her head. My first reaction was to think of my classmate’s father, who fell on his head while riding a bicycle and had no bleeding, and was now in a vegetative state. I asked if the head was broken, and she said no, so I left it at that. As a result, he wanted to break up with me because of these words.
Why? Because the boy next to her said that you suffered cerebral palsy after falling, and he would protect her for the rest of her life. She was so moved that she came to ask me, and my answer made her very sad. It's just fine that it's not broken. It's really not a big problem. The boy's exaggerated performance can really move her. It's not anything else, but she likes it in her heart.
But after thinking about it, I was wrong and what I said was inappropriate, but if this girl doesn’t like you, no matter how touching you say it, the result will be the same.
Let’s get back to the subject. My girlfriend fell and was injured in another place. At this time, it depends on the situation, your time, energy, and the degree of her injury. , the best thing may be for you to go over and accompany her. If it is not allowed, you can video comfort and show that you are very worried. Even if you pretend, you have to pretend. Yes, it is a painful lesson.
2. Comfort your girlfriend based on her personality
How to comfort your girlfriend when she is hurt depends on your girlfriend’s personality. If she is a little girl, you will need more Worry. If the conditions are sufficient, you will rush over to take care of the women's volleyball team after you know she was injured. If the conditions are not enough, do something or buy something to make up for it.
But if your girlfriend is the type who gets hurt and shakes herself off; when she is tired and thirsty, she solves the problem by herself. Generally, when she tells you that she is injured, she is just asking for comfort at that time. Next, the tough female man does not need any explanation, he will heal himself, heal himself, and do whatever he needs to do after it is over. I don’t think too much about whether my boyfriend doesn’t love me or anything like that. You don't need to worry too much about this. Just ask her verbally whether the injury is serious or not, and just pay appropriate attention to her.
Being injured by your girlfriend is a big or small matter. If you handle it well, it can promote your relationship. If you handle it poorly, it may Let your relationship come to an end, so you still need to pay attentionof.
