It is easy for some boys to chase girls, but it seems to be difficult to advance their relationship with girls.
This is because we have not mastered the correct way to fall in love, so we have been unable to unlock the possibility of going further with girls. The following is an analysis of how to advance the relationship between men and women from three aspects.
1. Principle of imitation
Couples or couples will look more and more like each other if they stay together for a long time. , which is the so-called "couple phase". Using this feature to imitate the girl you like can help you get together!
In fact, people subconsciously tend to imitate their surroundings, so you and your Friends always share the same jokes, talking points, and even habits and catchphrases.
When a girl sees the similarities between you and her, it will be easy for you to agree on your language and behavior, and then you will feel mutual attraction.
People are always attracted to people who are similar to themselves and develop a favorable impression. Therefore, we must cleverly grasp this psychology and use imitation to attract girls.
2. Repeat lines
In the initial stage of dating a girl, if you want her to pay attention to you, you can Repeat the "lines" of the girl you like, or even imitate her accent.
In fact, many boys have used this method to tease girls, deliberately imitating a girl’s words to tease them.
It is recommended not to imitate too deliberately, just with a slight trace. When chatting with the girl you like, repeat the words she uses.
It makes girls feel approved and respected. This kind of conversation can easily make girls feel friendly towards you.
3. Share secrets
When chatting with the girl you like, you want to quickly get closer to you A relationship requires a deeper level of chatting - sharing secrets.
According to social penetration theory (social penetration theory) - As mutual acceptance and trust increase, people disclose more and more of themselves, and at the same time require more and more self-disclosure from others.
When you start to take the initiative to share some secrets with girls, you are developing your intimate relationship with girls through self-exposure (exposing weaknesses).
In this process, the trust between you and the girl will also increase greatly.
