On a first blind date, both parties must not know each other very well, so self-introduction is definitely indispensable. The quality of this self-introduction may very well determine the quality of your first impression in the other person's mind. So how do you introduce yourself during a blind date to give the other person a good first impression?
1. Say hello
When going on a blind date, you must first say hello. This is a way to show that you are polite and friendly, and can remind you Your date or other audience, you are going to start speaking next, please ask the audience to pay attention. Just like when we were young, the teacher said hello before class, we will stand up and say hello to the teacher conditionedly. So the first step to introduce yourself to a relative is to say: "Hello".
2. Don’t be impatient during the introduction (don’t interrupt when the woman asks questions)
During the introduction process, the woman may raise her own questions. At this time, we should give priority to answering the woman’s questions. It would be better to continue introducing yourself after answering the question.
When a boy introduces himself to a friend, he must not be impatient and be careful of doing bad things.
3. Name introduction
When going on a blind date, you may feel nervous/excited/shy talking to strangers. You may forget to say your name, or the other person may not hear you clearly if you speak too fast, or may not know the specific word and have a vague impression of you.
4. Be transparent about yourself
The "transparency" here refers to telling your blind date your basic information. After saying hello and introducing your name, let the other person get to know you better. For example: your hometown, education, work, hobbies, experiences, dreams, etc. After you have said this, your date will be able to find some similarities with you, which will create some intimacy and bring you closer.
5. Personalization
The specific information we introduced earlier is the best way to reflect your relationship with Other blind dates are different and can leave a very deep impression on others. So how to "personalize" them, there are three points below:
(1) Introduce your most special person Growth experience
(2) Introduce your more valuable achievements in the past (preferably reflected in numbers, so that it is full of impact)
(3) Introduce what you are currently doing or are about to do An important thing you have done (preferably something related to the blind date)
6. Personal appeal
This is to introduce the blind date to what your purpose is, What kind of person do you want to find, or what kind of relationship do you want to have.
Example: I hope thatTo become friends with you, I hope to find a gentle and lovely girl to hold hands with me.
7. Arrangements for the future (arrangements after marriage)
At the end, you can talk about yourself Arrangements for the future (plans for life after marriage), such as where to own a house, what kind of job you plan to change, whether you will live with your parents, etc. Blind dates are all geared toward marriage, so going straight to the topic will have better results.
