When girls say "we are not suitable", boys may feel lost and frustrated inside. But that doesn't mean it's over. In this article, we'll look at how to reply to a girl and try to save the relationship.
1. Accept her point of view
First of all, boys should accept the girl’s point of view. If a girl thinks the two of you are not a good match, then there is probably some issue that needs to be addressed. Guys can ask a girl what she thinks is inappropriate to better understand her perspective.
At the same time, boys should also express their opinions. He can tell the girl how he feels about the relationship and whether he is willing to change some behaviors or habits to improve the relationship.
2. Find solutions
If the guy really wants to save the relationship, then he needs to find a solution with the girl. Together they can explore ways to improve communication, trust and understanding between each other.
Boys can also make some specific suggestions, such as increasing the number of dates, participating in some interesting activities, learning how to better handle conflicts, etc.
3. Give girls space
If a girl still insists that the two are not suitable, then the boy should give her some space. He can tell the girl that he understands her thoughts and respects her decision.
Boys can also propose a temporary separation so that both parties have time to think and reflect on the relationship. During this time, boys can work on improving their problems and expect girls to do the same.
4. Don’t give up
Finally, boys need to remember not to give up easily. Saving a relationship takes a lot of effort and patience. If a boy really loves a girl and believes that there is a future between them, then he should continue to work hard.
Of course, boys also need to clarify their bottom line. If the girl remains unwilling to change or work with the guy to find a solution, the guy may want to consider ending the relationship.
Summary
When a girl says "we are not suitable", the boy should accept her point of view and try to find a solution with her. If the girl still insists that the two are not suitable, the boy should give her some space and continue to work hard to improve her problems. Finally, boys need to clarify their bottom line. If the girl is still unwilling to change or is unwilling to find a solution with the boy, then the boy may need to consider ending the relationship.
