There is a saying that "female juniors hold gold bricks". Girls who are older than themselves are often more mature and know how to take care of others. Therefore, boys sometimes fall in love with girls who are older than themselves, but they don't know how to pursue them. , in fact, no matter what age girls pursue, there are certain methods to follow. As long as boys can follow the correct method, they will definitely get twice the result with half the effort. So how do boys pursue girls who are older than themselves? Boys might as well take a look.
1. Be sure to show a mature and steady side
Maturity and stability are the criteria for choosing a mate for many girls. The older girls are, the more they pay attention to this. An important reason why girls don’t like to find boys younger than themselves is that they worry that boys are not mature enough and will not be able to take on the responsibility of the family in the future. Therefore, if boys want to pursue girls older than themselves, they must show that they are mature and stable. Have a responsible side. For example, don’t be too childish in your dress. When chatting with girls, don’t always talk about games and other topics. Talk more about your imagination for the future, your work plans, your responsibilities and expectations for your family, etc. It can increase your goodwill and make girls feel that you are responsible and responsible.
2. Show your caring side
Girls hope to find a caring boy, because a patient boy will love his wife in the future. My own children, my loving family. Therefore, when boys are dating girls, they can often send girls some cute pet videos to let girls know that you like small pets.
When talking about your opinion on something, let the girl know that you are caring and willing to help others, so that your Excellent qualities will impress a girl and make her ignore your age issue, and then she will gradually develop a good impression of you and feel that you are a good man who can be relied on.
3. Learn to praise girls
The reason why some girls do not want to find boys younger than themselves is because they are worried that they will not be able to control this period when they lose their beauty due to age in the future. emotion. Therefore, when boys pursue girls who are older than themselves, they must learn to praise girls more and give girls confidence.
Only girls who are confident enough will choose boys younger than themselves. When praising a girl, you should not only praise her beauty, but also praise her other qualities, such as gentleness, cuteness, intelligence, intelligence, thoughtfulness, etc. Because beauty will pass with time, but qualities such as gentleness, cuteness, thoughtfulness, intellectuality, and intelligence will not disappear. This will make girls more determined to be with you.
What girls who are older than you lack most is a sense of security. If boys can bring a sense of security to girls in all aspects, girls will naturally open up to you.
