If you observe carefully, you will find that for those boys who are not in good condition, as long as they can speak a little, it is not difficult to get out of singles. On the contrary, some conditions are okay, but boys who talk less can't find girlfriends. Do you just know the reason?
Why can’t people who talk less find girlfriends?
Boys who talk less have a relatively lower sense of presence, so fewer people will pay attention to it. Put it on him, and this is equivalent to adding a communication barrier for boys who talk less. The most direct communication between people is language. Without language communication, there will naturally be a lack of emotional communication. And girls tend to be more likely to like people who stay with her and chat with her.
And to be honest, it is impossible for a boy who talks little to chase a girl. He will at most give the girl some inexplicable hints. If the girl doesn’t like you, she may think that you are doing this. sick. But I think if you don't take the initiative and are not enthusiastic enough, there may be no hope of catching up. And it’s not because you take the initiative that girls will fall in love with you.
Of course, some people may say that many male protagonists in TV series and novels are cold and cruel. Not many types. When I watch TV series and novels, I sometimes love certain male protagonists very much, but the male protagonists here cannot be generalized to the guys who talk less. The reasons are as follows:
1. Most of these male protagonists have incredible looks, otherwise they are very elegant. Such a male protagonist has his own aura. Even if he doesn't speak normally, he attracts attention just by standing there.
2. Most of these male protagonists have good family backgrounds and wealth. Their own qualities have been well cultivated, and they are very temperamental according to the first point.
3. Most of these male protagonists have super high IQs, or have very powerful professions or skills. Very talented, which is another great weapon to attract the opposite sex.
4. Do you think the male protagonist really talks less? ? ? He just talks less about people he thinks don't matter. Not only does he talk a lot about the people he likes, but he can also flirt with them in different ways. Generally, this kind of male protagonist will have a brother, mother, and the like around him, who will marvel at the blossoming of the iron tree, or how he has changed.
Having said so much, you should understand what I mean, right? There are also girls who like boys who talk less, but they are only in the minority. If you are a boy who talks little, you don’t have to force yourself to talk a lot and force yourself to do social interactions that you don’t like. But for the girl you like, you must be braver. At this time, you need to contact her more and communicate more.
