In the case of a breakup, in addition to the economic factor, there is another objective factor that is the disapproval of the parents. It's okay if your parents don't agree, you can convince yourself. But if you are dating the girl's parents, it will be a bit difficult. Now let’s talk about what should the girl’s parents do if they don’t agree to date the boy?
1. Cannot escape
With the increasing number of only children in this generation, the resistance between many couples now does not come from financial pressure, but from parents. The objection may be due to the distance, age, or financial reasons... In short, the woman's parents just don't agree with your relationship. What to do?
Many people may think that the problem of disapproval of the woman’s parents is difficult to solve, and that she should give up love in order to fulfill her filial piety. This idea is really stupid, and it is also a kind of escape, a cowardly choice, and a sign of immaturity and irresponsibility.
If you choose to escape at this step, the woman will definitely not believe that you can give her happiness, and so on. People will pretend not to care, and while not solving the reality of the objection of the woman's parents, promise to her girlfriend that "we are together is a matter between us, it has nothing to do with them, don't worry about it." This whitewashing approach is very undesirable and will only Lay hidden dangers like mines.
Go down, because she knows very well that it is not a wise move to break up with your parents because of you. Moreover, it is not a trustworthy quality for a man to encourage her to abandon her parents. Psychologically speaking, a woman's requirements for choosing a mate are more important than stability and security.
2. Communicate honestly and solve problems
In fact, it is really not that terrible if the woman’s parents disagree with your relationship. It’s not that difficult to solve. Of course, in this process, your girlfriend may need to be a communication link and provide conditions for you to have honest and heart-to-heart communication with the girl’s parents. Don’t quarrel with emotions or intensify conflicts, let alone divide camps and let care be given. Your girlfriend's parents are on the opposite side.
If you really get to know it, you will find that the reasons for the objection of the woman’s parents are just a few, either because they are reluctant to let go, or because of the gap between the two families, or because of the differences between you and your daughter. The age gap between friends makes them doubt whether their daughter can live a happy life with you. To put it bluntly, they are definitely afraid that your girlfriend will suffer a disadvantage.
As long as you solve all their worries, in addition to communication, you also show them through actions. There is no room for improvement, but more importantly, you need to let your significant other see it.The attitude that you go and solve it.
The fact that the woman’s parents do not agree to the relationship is not a big problem. The most important thing is to solve the problem with sincerity. The woman’s parents It is also not unreasonable to consider the problem out of the happiness of his daughter.
