Recently I received a request for help from a fan. He was very helpless. He and his girlfriend were very loving, but the girl’s parents didn’t agree and she really didn’t know what to do, so she came to me for help. So today, I will give you some advice on the question "What should I do if my parents don't agree with pursuing a girl?" I hope it can help you.
First of all, you have to know why the woman’s parents disagree:
1. Reasons for disagreement< /h2>
1. Parents’ hearts
Parents will be reluctant to let their daughter be married off by another man. This emotion will reach a climax when they first meet the man. So it’s understandable that the woman’s parents were opposed to the first meeting.
2. The boyfriend’s shortcomings
If the girl’s parents disagree, there is always a reason. It may be the man’s financial conditions, appearance, character, character... Conclusion of disagreement The conclusion is drawn from the life experience of parents and is worthy of scrutiny.
3. The woman’s single parent objects.
In some cases, the woman’s parents have different opinions. One is very satisfied, the other is very dissatisfied, or they have neutral opinions. This disagreement is very subjective and, of course, brings randomness to the idea of ??reversal.
2. Solution
Step one: Boyfriend’s reaction
If the girl’s parents disagree, her boyfriend’s reaction is very important!
If If you back off at this time, or don't care, then your parents will not need to say anything, and the woman will also back off along with you.
If you act very anxious, very nervous, and very eager to solve the problem, then the girl can feel free to solve the problem with you.
Step 2: Ask clearly why
If the girl’s parents do not agree, the girl should have more contact with them. Talk about this topic and find out the real reasons why your parents disagree. Only when we understand the real reasons can we know how to solve or eliminate parents' misunderstandings.
Step 3: Give in to the woman’s parents
If the girl’s parents do not agree, you must not cut off contact with her parents. Instead, you should have more contact and understand more, so as to reduce the chance of misunderstanding. .
When a man meets the girl’s parents, he can also do what they like and bring some gifts that the girl’s parents like, letting them know that the man is willing to spend time with them, values ??their opinions, and expresses respect and closeness.
Step 4: Break through each one
If one parent disagrees, analyze the reasons for the disagreement with the other parent, and convince the other parent to help persuade. If both parents disagree, first convince the one who disagrees less, and then talk.Serve another.
The parents’ approval and objections are essentially from the woman’s perspective, so as long as the man is willing to work together, there are solutions.
In fact, this is also an exercise in facing common difficulties before marriage. After going through this process, no matter how many difficulties you encounter in the future, you can patiently solve them and feel more confident. What do you think?
