Almost every relationship will have a dull period, but boys and girls will be completely different in their dull periods. Do you know what the differences are?
The behavior of boys and girls in the dull period of love
They all say, "Like is joy at first sight, but love is long-lasting." I don't know since when, life has passed As time passed, all the initial appreciation turned into disgust. It seems that I can no longer have a good conversation with the other party. Every time I disagree, I quarrel, and every time I open my mouth, I blame and judge:
I have told you countless times not to leave things indiscriminately, don’t you have a long memory?
Throw your worn clothes in the washing machine, not in the cupboard!
How long have you been putting off doing this little thing? What can you do for this family?
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It was obviously a trivial matter, but emotions always came to the fore, making it impossible for the two of them to talk properly. In the past, the differences in personality of the other party that attracted me, Now it has become inappropriate evidence. What has changed in the relationship?
In fact, regardless of men and women, as time goes by, relationships will enter a dull period from the passionate love period. During this period, there may be more partners. More rationality. Although there will be friction and friction at the beginning, if two people are honest with each other and actively face each other when there is friction, then such a relationship will most likely develop smoothly.
And if you quarrel or even break up as soon as you encounter a problem, it is likely that you will enter a period of indifference, your relationship will quickly cool down, and you will eventually break up.
Regardless of the length of the love period, it completely depends on how two people manage their relationship. Under normal circumstances, men and women entering different stages will not be synchronized.
For example, when boys feel that they can stabilize, they will not spend more time on relationships; but girls will feel a strong gap and think: "He doesn't care about me so much anymore?" From before, Asking questions, asking where to go after three meals, and sharing everything they see. Once these habits suddenly change, it can't help but make people uneasy.
Therefore, girls are very sensitive to emotional changes. Girls will have different interpretations of "a flat period or a change of heart", so they will often complain. But some people, once they stop, can never get back the original feeling. The dull period is definitely the most dangerous stage in a relationship!
How to get through the dull period of love
In fact, as long as you understand the essence of love, it is not difficult to get through the dull period. Girls are eager for boys to love themselves more, and boys are also eager to gain respect from girls. Therefore, based on the above needs, you can create more expressions of love between you.
For example, a nickname or a word with a special meaning may mean that neither of you is willing to admit your mistake. Then you can use a representative thing or action to express your attitude of admitting your mistake, etc..
The purpose of this is to create a supportive and open relationship atmosphere between two people, enhance comfort and further enhance mutual intimacy when both people can accept it.
In this way, if conflicts arise in the future, you will be more willing to communicate openly and be more inclined to believe that the relationship between you can withstand it. Live with contradictions and conflicts, enhance trust in the intimate relationship between two people, and increase the sweetness of love in the dull period.
