Whether you are a man or a woman, you actually hope that you can meet someone who is sincere to you and keep going like this. But love is elusive. Even if you are devoted to your girlfriend, you can't bear it if your girlfriend changes her heart, or she already has someone outside. At this time, you need to stop the loss in time. Let me share with you the behavior of someone outside your girlfriend. If you doubt whether your girlfriend has changed her mind, check to see if she has any of the following behaviors.
1. Rich social circle
Your girlfriend will also have her own social circle after she is with you, but a person’s social circle can basically judge her personality and where she is. environment. No matter what your girlfriend's social circle was before she got together with you, she will become more restrained after she gets together with you. If when she was in love, she still went to a nightclub to meet friends for a drink today and made an appointment to go to a disco tomorrow (without you), then the chance of getting out of the mud and not getting infected is very slim. If your girlfriend really likes these activities, then go with her and tell her that you will be worried if she goes alone. But if your girlfriend still doesn't want you to go with her, then it's worth wondering if she has someone else out there. (Actually, you won’t get any valuable information by asking her best friend at this time, because her best friend will cover it for her)
< h2>2. Time managementIf your girlfriend doesn’t want to break up with you, then she will still handle the relationship with you even if there is someone else outside. This time management will be involved. The problem is, she needs to ensure that she can be with other people while being in love with you.
If you and your girlfriend are already living together, and you want to determine whether her takeout is occupied, you can observe if your girlfriend is holding her cell phone at any time without showing it to you, even if she goes to take a shower. Just take it and call it a song while taking a shower. In addition to the first time, she also likes to go to the bathroom at a fixed time. After all, you can't stare at your girlfriend when you go to the bathroom, and she can send too many messages during this time. She can tell people on her mobile phone, "I'm going to take a shower," "I'm going to watch a movie," "I'm going to read a book," and other excuses, so that there will be one to two hours of free time left for you... ...In this way, while your girlfriend is dealing with you, she can also have a passionate fight with the wild men outside, without affecting her performance at all.
If you and your girlfriend have not yet lived together, it will be even harder for you to find out if there is someone outside your girlfriend. She said she had dinner with her colleagues after get off work, made friends with her best friends, went to a friend's house for dinner, and worked overtime...but you can't verify what she did specifically. Even if she didn’t answer your call at night or send you a message, and she said the next day that she was too sleepy after working overtime last night, she went to bed when she got home and forgot to say good night to you, and she didn’t hear you when you called her. She didn't see the message, so what else can you blame her for?
In fact, a normal girlfriend comes out to chat with her boyfriend to increase feelings.In addition, there is actually nothing to be busy with after get off work. If you find that your girlfriend's time management is so busy that it affects your relationship, then you have to wonder if she has someone outside.
Of course, the behavior of someone outside your girlfriend goes beyond the above two points. In fact, as someone close to your boyfriend, every move she makes will affect you. You can see it with your eyes. You can also see whether her feelings for you have changed and whether her care has become less.
