Luo Zhixiang and Zhou Yangqing broke up for some time. When everyone thought they broke up peacefully, Zhou Yangqing revealed information that subverted all views.
Luo Zhixiang cheated, cheated, and even had relationships with multiple members of the opposite sex, which caused Luo Zhixiang's personality to completely collapse. Maybe some people will sympathize with Zhou Yangqing's experience and accuse Luo Zhixiang, feeling that Luo Zhixiang is a scumbag.
But when you really investigate the essence of this matter, you will find that their emotional experiences are not just gossip, but more telling you to understand these things:
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1. If you gather less and separate more, you will only be invaded by a third party
Many people are actually the same as Luo Zhixiang , obviously the two of them have been together for many years, but they don't really have many days together. Just like a long-distance relationship, the two of them are always busy with their own work. The man thinks that career is the most important thing, while the woman thinks that independence is important, and they both ignore the importance of communication.
The love relationship between the two is more like a rooming relationship. Each has his own life, and it is difficult to integrate into the other's circle, so the two of them will feel strange. Lost the passion and attachment we had when we were just together.
Gradually, it was discovered that the two people had less and less intersection in life, their relationship became weaker and weaker, and more and more problems occurred, resulting in each other's need for each other being unsatisfied.
One of the parties will seek satisfaction from the outside world. If other people of the opposite sex appear at this time, it will be easy for the other party to mistake this "company" for love, until it turns into infidelity.
2. Trusting the other party too much will only lead to wanton deception
In relationships, trust is emotion The cornerstone of love is that only by trusting each other can the relationship be happier and longer-lasting, and the occurrence of conflicts reduced, but don't trust the other party too much. When two people are together, they can have some privacy.
But most of the time you should be honest with each other. If you believe the other person because of his words, it will only make the other person feel tired and easy to bully. They can deceive you arbitrarily and will not tell you the truth.
And you also need to know that the "sense of trust" in a relationship must also be based on supervision. Mutual supervision and mutual understanding are the real sense of trust, as long as you don't constantly doubt the other person. , you can exchange your secrets with each other and talk about your grievances for a period of time.
Only in this way can each other understand each other, and this can also make the other party feel a sense of belonging and pay attention to their own behavior.
3. Being immersed in promises, what is lost is the sense of crisis
Whenever someone mentions the other person, you may be immersed in the other person's tenderness and feel that the other person is very good to you. Although you have been together for a long time, you have not lost your care and concern for each other. You feel that the other person loves you very much and will not leave you, so you will love the other person wholeheartedly and do not want the other person to have a sense of crisis.
But you have to know that whether a relationship will last, you can’t just look at the superficial happiness, because your wholeheartedness will only make the other person feel that you can’t live without him, and make the other person lose the desire to conquer you. Relationships will definitely not last long.
Therefore, in a relationship, an appropriate sense of crisis is also a way to manage the relationship and maintain it for a long time. Therefore, even if you are very happy, you must appropriately create the illusion of crisis. Let him have a feeling that he can't control you, and he will put more energy into catching you instead of focusing on other aspects and other people.
In fact, when a relationship ends, the problem will never belong to one person. As long as you find your problems early and solve them, you will definitely gain a happy and long-lasting relationship.
