I don’t know if you all have this feeling. Only when you have a stable relationship with your partner can you devote yourself 100% to other things. To be honest with you, I have a deep understanding of this! So in order to allow everyone to do their own things wholeheartedly, today I will share what are the foundations for a stable relationship. Let’s take a look.
1. Love according to human nature
Love is a small game between people. Since it is Everyone has a dark side, so "that's almost enough" is a very important thought! You don't need to take care of the other person's emotions 100%, it's almost enough; you don't need to be 100% honest, just about enough; you don't have to do everything according to the plan 100%. That's almost it.
Many disappointments in relationships often come from high expectations. Only with a bigger heart can relationships last longer. If we follow human nature and fall in love, the other person will be more relaxed, and we will be more likely to be happy and less likely to be disappointed.
2. Emotional stability
This is more important than how good you are at flirting and how good-looking you are. You can Make small fuss, but you must control your emotions. If you worry about gains and losses all day long and lose control of your emotions, then all the other person will feel is a depressing atmosphere. If you can't even control your own emotions, how can you affect the other person's emotions?
3. Learn to put down your stance when quarreling
In a interpersonal relationship, how others treat you will determine It depends on your behavior. In a quarrel, if you take a certain position
, the other party will naturally take the opposite position, and eventually the quarrel will get out of hand. Therefore, when quarreling, we must learn to put down our stance and wait for each other to calm down before analyzing.
The above three points play a very important role in emotional stability, so have you all learned it? If you like it, don’t forget to like and collect it. See you in the next issue.
