Although everyone knows that it is best not to have a cold war between lovers, sometimes tempers cannot be stopped. Now that a cold war has been created, the next step is to find a way to end the cold war and reconcile both parties. There won't be any knots in my heart, and I won't let the cold war affect my feelings. Now let’s talk about how to reconcile with your girlfriend after a cold war without embarrassment?
1. Taking the initiative to seek peace after the Cold War
As a man, if you quarrel with your girlfriend, you can take the initiative to seek peace first. You can first think about why you are cold-blooded and don't speak, calm down for a while, and after you think clearly, you can take the initiative to communicate with your girlfriend. If you don't want to talk to her face to face, just send a message and tell her your truest thoughts. It’s sad, there’s something you don’t want to mention, something inappropriate that makes you uncomfortable…tell her about it.
When I talk about this, I do it after adjusting my mentality. After you finish speaking, you must show your optimistic and positive side. It is normal for problems to arise. We must tell each other about them. No matter good or bad, I understand and tolerate you. Finally, express your love more! Saying "I love you" too much is not cheap. Love needs to be expressed. If she's in front of you, give her a hug and a kiss. The magic of love is to make people soft.
2. Post-Cold War Analysis Issues
Although after the above steps, your girlfriend seems to be with you on the surface. You have reconciled, but the problems between you are still there. At this time, you need to find ways to analyze and solve the problems. Because even though you have reconciled on the surface, there must be knots in your heart after the quarrel, just like the water pipe is blocked, and the emotions cannot be expressed naturally. So I feel like "a lot of things have changed" compared to before.
In this case, you need to talk it out with your girlfriend, clear out the blocked emotions, and come down as soon as you are given a step, and the matter will be over. It's normal for couples to quarrel, and they don't really remember their anger. If there is love, the following days will be enough to digest these with love. Of course, you also need to reflect on the whole thing and express your attitude. (Of course it depends on the specific matter)
3. Don’t wait for the other party to speak first after the cold war
When your girlfriend is having a cold war, don't wait for the other person to speak first. Don't take the initiative if you think you are right. You must know that when two people quarrel and have a cold war, there is actually something wrong with both parties. If you don't take the initiative, your girlfriend won't take the initiative either. If two people compete with each other and neither bows down first, they may actually break up in the end.
To put it bluntly, this kind of thinking is actually selfish and indifferent. If you really love her, you will not be willing to let her become discouraged during the cold war. If you think of relying on apologies to determine each other's status, this kind of relationship is unhealthy. Even if you continue to maintain it, one party will be overwhelmed and the grievances will accumulate to the extreme, and then break up.hand.
Finally, I would like to remind everyone: the Cold War is not terrible. Just like quarreling, the key lies in what you do after the Cold War.
