I believe everyone knows that long-distance relationships are actually really difficult. Rather than falling in love with a person, it is more like falling in love with a mobile phone, so it will be even more difficult to maintain such a relationship. But it’s not impossible. Today, the editor will bring you the secret of how to maintain a long-distance relationship. Come and take a look.
Establish a stable sense of security
The most painful thing about long-distance relationships is the "distance", which cannot be touched every day Not being able to see each other can easily make people feel uncertain or have unnecessary suspicion about the relationship, so establishing a sense of security for the other party is the most important thing!
Give some examples:
1. Consciously disclose your significant other to your circle of friends. This is the most basic thing in love.
2. The most important thing is to respond to messages and report your itinerary in a timely manner!
3. Three rules of thumb: Don’t settle old scores, don’t advance appointments, and don’t break up.
4. Know how to refuse the opposite sex who actively approaches you, and pay attention to your tone and propriety when chatting.
5. Take good care of the other person’s sensitive emotions, be able to read the other person’s mood and comfort them appropriately.
6. Remember and do what you promised.
7. Regarding your love life, when you need to make a decision, discuss it together.
Increase intimate interaction
In addition to voice and video, babies in different places can do many things together to make the connection with each other closer and break the limitation of distance.
Give some examples:
1. Watch movies, TV shows or listen to songs together, and you can also discuss the plot.
2. Save money together and go on a trip when you meet.
3. Let’s play games together.
4. Discuss and plan for the future together.
5. Prepare to arrange the next date together.
6. Let’s raise pets together on the app.
7. Go online shopping together to choose clothes or daily necessities for each other.
8. Take photos together to record your life and put together photos of each other’s daily routine.
9. Together, set a small goal for the week that only belongs to the two of you and achieve it.
10. Let’s urge each other to improve ourselves during the days when we can’t see each other.
Maintain a sweet sense of ritual
1. Maintain online contact every day and check in morning and evening.
2. Make video or voice calls before going to bed every day.
3. Say more sweet words! Occasionally, you can use earthy love words to trick the other person~
4. Prepare surprises for the other party (gifts or surprise appearances).
5. Regular appointmentsWe will meet each other and fill each other's lives with expectations.
6. Take a set of photos regularly and develop them as souvenirs.
7. Give the other person a personal gift to make them think of you all the time.
8. You can make a journal of photos of every date and meeting.
9. If you can’t spend the anniversary together, you can also order a delicious takeaway for each other~
10. Make an appointment to use (wear) couple’s items together on a certain day.
Important principles to adhere to in long-distance relationships
1. Trust, respect and understand each other.
2. If there are conflicts, explain them directly, communicate actively, and avoid cold war.
3. Do not be ambiguous with anyone of the opposite sex.
4. Reply immediately when nothing happens. If you have something busy, you can explain it in advance.
5. Be honest and don’t deceive, be frank and don’t hide anything.
6. Think about the problem from the other side’s point of view.
7. Express your love for each other more often.
8. Be very committed to this relationship and have a common goal.
