Question: I am 30 years old this year. In the past two years, my parents have been urging me to go on blind dates very seriously. Currently, I have a girlfriend that I have been dating for half a year, but because I have never brought a girlfriend home over the years, my parents think that the girlfriend I have outside is unstable, so they told me that I must go on a blind date this year, and then I I told my girlfriend about this, and then I told her that I already had her and could no longer go on a blind date, and then suggested that we should find an opportunity to meet our parents. But my girlfriend was a little hesitant and said she was still evaluating me. What should I do?
Should you go on a blind date if you have a girlfriend?
Answer: You told your girlfriend about your situation and expressed your sincerity to her. However, instead of being moved, your girlfriend told you that she was still evaluating you. It means that in her eyes, she has not yet confirmed her relationship with you as a boyfriend or girlfriend. In fact, in this case, there is no problem for you to go on a blind date. What if you really meet a girl who suits you through a blind date? So the key to the question is whether you have identified your girlfriend or not? If neither of you recognizes the other, and both are the other's short-term choices, then why waste time? If you should go on a blind date, just go on a blind date.
In relationships, the one word I hate most when girls say it is assessment. I feel that the word "assessment" has a special feeling of elevating girls and belittling boys. If you want me to agree to be my girlfriend, you have to take a test, and the deadline is set by me. If it works, it's okay. If it doesn't, it won't work. It has to be like a martial arts competition to recruit a bride. That's it. One day someone better than you will come out and kick you right away without any discussion.
The current situation is that she thinks that she has you firmly entangled, and she has you as a guarantee, and then she goes to see other updates. Only if there is hope for a good one can we evaluate it. When a better one appears, he will turn around and dump you. Maybe she suddenly disappeared for a few days, suddenly became indifferent to unimportant things, became famous and then tried to coax her with pretense that could be easily seen through, changed her living habits without warning, bought herself men's cosmetics and started dressing up, which is a way to create uneasiness. Too much, let her live in the suspicion that you are also using her as a guarantee and will leave at any time
As for your parents’ problems, they are urging them, you can talk about your own, in fact, love is your own You still have to make your own decisions about things, instead of changing your mind just because your parents urge you to do so. As for blind dates, you can go if you want. Girls who are gradually different from each other would be better to get to know more blind dates.
