It is said that love needs to be evenly matched to last, so should a relationship continue if the woman is much stronger than the man? Let’s use a case to explain it to you:
Case background:
I met a girl through my parents. In the circle of parents, the girl and I are both excellent. But those outside their circle, or those who understand my profession, will know that the woman crushed me to death. Although I'm not very jealous, I don't think men have to suppress women. But the gap is too big, and it is inevitable to worry about low self-esteem and embarrassment in the future. But it’s not so awkward at all if the woman and I are in different industries. Now I feel like my incompetence has been completely exposed by the woman.
The woman is not slow to reply to messages, and she is a fellow from Kochi, so the conversation goes smoothly. But I can feel the pride that comes from her excellence all the way. It didn't embarrass me, it was very flattering, but it did make me feel a little inferior. What should I do if I encounter this situation? Should we continue a relationship where the woman is much stronger than the man?
Question and Answer:
1. Will you accept it if so?
If I am this man and I don’t accept it.
2. What unavoidable problems will there be in the future?
You can feel her pride now, how will you live in the future? Pride doesn't have to be that she may be domineering during the chat, and it can penetrate into every aspect of the details of life.
If you get married in the future, do you think you have a say? If the opinions happen to be consistent, that's no problem; what if they disagree?
Do you think she can discuss things with you calmly and put yourself in your shoes? Or will she treat herself like a queen and you must obey her orders unconditionally?
Some women who have particularly good horizontal ratios will not be able to find a suitable candidate because they are in a high position. Therefore, when they meet a man who is similar in all aspects, even if he is slightly inferior to her, she will not be able to find a suitable candidate. He will cherish it very much, and may even deliberately lower his position in life to give the rich man face. Whether it's about taking care of a man's self-esteem, or about making herself softer to make the relationship between the two more balanced and stable, she will be conscious and willing to show weakness.
Do you think she is like this? Judge for yourself.
3. Should the woman continue to take the initiative with this attitude?
If you are suppressed in all aspects, and she is very strong herself, which is unpleasant to say, when you are together in the future, if you want to change positions, you have to look at her face to see if she is happy or not.
Anyway, I can’t stand it.
Especially since you have already started to feel inferior before you start, why don’t you withdraw immediately?
She may still be keeping it, but she will have to treat you even more when she gets married. When the time comes you haven’tIf you try to deal with it, you will only get angry as a coward.
In summary, you can feel whether she is high-profile and luxurious or low-key and luxurious. If it's the latter, you can try it.
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