I think ending a long-distance relationship is what many long-distance couples dream of, but ending a long-distance relationship suddenly is still a bit uncomfortable, so today we will take a look at the changes that long-distance couples find after ending their long-distance relationship.
1. More face-to-face time
Although the ultimate goal of a long-distance relationship is for both parties to Individuals can reunite as soon as possible, but when they actually get reunited, they will find some problems that they were not aware of before.
This factor also determines that most couples who have survived long-distance relationships choose to break up. Although they were tired of being together every day during long-distance relationships, they only had to communicate with each other through mobile phones.
Now that we are reunited, we can be together face to face every day. Then we discovered some of his "shortcomings", and these shortcomings were exactly what I couldn't bear, and finally ended up breaking up.
2. Feel that you are no longer free
Different from long-distance relationships, after two people are together, you will find that you do not have the freedom as before, and you need to spend a lot of time every day Use it to accompany the other person. If you want to go out with friends, you have to consider whether it is appropriate to leave him or her alone at home. In the past, you could just make your own decisions when doing things, but now you have to ask for his or her opinion. If you have different opinions, there will be a dispute. These are all things that I have never encountered before, and if I can't accept it, I just let it go.
3. More conflicts and contradictions
Couples will have more daily frictions after they reunite, and many people say that conflicts will not only increase, but will also become increasingly difficult to resolve. , this is a common feeling between lovers. The intimacy between the two people decreases, and they even feel that their partner is strange! So much so that they will say
"We have all changed, and we are no longer who we used to be." If you don't handle it well, you will most likely say goodbye to the other person.
4. Re-adjust the relationship
Because the two people are not as familiar as before, both parties have changed over time. Changes have occurred. When they reunited after a long distance, it was like two people meeting for the first time. There was some tension and embarrassment, and they needed to get to know and adapt to each other again. This leads to two results, either it becomes sweeter than before and the relationship heats up. Or the relationship has regressed, and the two of them can no longer be strangers and choose to break up.
5. I feel that nothing has changed
According to the data survey, only 2 of the 72 people surveyed mentioned this. Later, these two people broke up. As for the reason, there is no It's up to them to figure it out.
But the editor wants to say, why do you still choose to break up after long-distance relationships are so difficult? Can't two people just deal with them properly when they encounter problems?Are you done? I hope you can stick with him until the end.