The affair of cheating affects more than just the couple. If you have children, the harm to the children cannot be ignored. Don’t think that the children are still young and don’t understand. Children’s minds are very sensitive. Do you think they I don’t know that he already knew it. Don’t believe it. Today I will share a letter written by a child after discovering that his parents had cheated on him. Let’s take a look at it.
Mom and Dad:
Today is my 12th birthday, do you still remember?
Last year, my father said that when I was waiting for my birthday, our family would go to the amusement park. You said you would take me to ride bumper cars and ride a big horse.
But dad didn’t come back today.
Mom also seems to have forgotten my birthday.
I don’t know why, you guys have become very strange:
Dad suddenly became very busy, and I haven’t seen you for a long time. You are very cruel to your mother and cold to me.
You ignored me when you got home and were just busy arguing with your mother.
Mom doesn’t like to laugh now, she is always fierce.
I accidentally broke a bowl that day. My mother said angrily: "Aren't you careful? You can't do such a small thing well."
I cried aggrievedly, but my mother did not comfort me. She said: Why cry? What’s the use of crying.
She became very angry. Sometimes she would scold me and sometimes she would hit me.
I don’t know what I did wrong, or what made my parents angry. I think if I were good, I would stop being picky about food and stop fighting with my friends.
I do my homework seriously and don’t play with the computer. My parents will be like before. But my parents still quarrel, my father still never smiles at me, and my mother sighs and looks very unhappy when she sees me.
I didn’t know why until that day.
One time when you were having a quarrel at home, I heard it at the door. Dad said he didn’t love mom anymore and fell in love with someone else.
Mom said she was a vixen, and her father was seduced by her, and now he doesn’t even want his wife and children.
I was shocked. Did dad cheat on me?
Didn’t dad say he loves me and mom the most? Will dad not want me?
We Ban Xiaomin's father cheated on him and his mother divorced him.
Everyone laughs at Xiao Min as a child without a father. I often see Xiao Min lying on the table, crying very sadly.
Will my mother divorce my father? Will I also become a child without a father?
Me Don't want this.
We are oneMy family used to be so warm.
Dad will play football with me, and my mother will watch my favorite cartoons with me. My father took my mother and I to the amusement park, the park, and the movies. I hold my father with my left hand and my mother with my right hand.
How good we were at that time, the house was full of laughter and laughter.
Now, I often hear my father say that my mother is strong and not gentle, and my mother calls my father shameless and heartless.
But I could only hide in the room and wrap myself in a quilt. Then I won’t hear you quarreling, right?
Will it get better?
Sometimes, I blame my dad, why he cheated on me, why he didn’t want me and my mom?
But sometimes, I blame my mother, why does she always have to quarrel with her father? Why does she always scold him?
Sometimes, I am also very scared, if My father no longer wants me, will one day my mother no longer want me?
Then will I have no one to love me? Am I the only one in the family?
That day, I heard my mother call my father: Do you think I want to live with you? If it weren't for the sake of the children, I would have divorced you long ago. You think you can cheat, but I can't cheat. I cheated too. I I will take revenge on you.
Later, I kept thinking about what my mother said, is it because of me that my mother is unhappy?
It turns out that my mother also cheated!
My father and mother are terrible.
Mom cries all day long and dad doesn’t come home.
I will not get married when I grow up, getting married is too scary!
I want us to go back to the home we had before, and I want the parents who love me.
I don’t want you to make do with me, and I don’t want you to have a bad life because of me. If you don't want to be together anymore, get a divorce.
The above is a letter written by a fan’s son to them. According to the fans themselves, when they saw this letter, they felt regretful, but it seemed that it was too late to do anything because the little boy Children's hearts are inherently pure, but this incident is far more harmful to children than to adults. It will take some time for adults to heal slowly, let alone children?
I believe that many couples are considering divorce. When this happened, like this couple, they only cared about their own feelings and completely forgot about the harm the children suffered. That’s why I thought of sharing it with everyone today. I hope everyone can do anything. You should consider everything comprehensively, especially when dealing with children. Don't wait until the harm is done to make up for it. By then it is really too late.
