It is no longer unusual for a third party to appear, so I would like to ask everyone, have you ever encountered a third party who is only interested in feelings? I saw a saying on the Internet that men You are most afraid of meeting a third party who is only interested in feelings. Is this the same for you? Today I will tell you what happened to those third parties who were only interested in feelings. Let’s take a look.
Share a fan case:
I cheated on me at the beginning of the year.
She is in the same company as me, and we often have work contacts. At first, she always smiles at me, cares about me, and touches me from time to time. For example, she will deliberately touch me when handing me documents. When she touched my hand, she would wear a tight dress and sit next to me during meetings. The moment she lowered her head to pick up a pen, my heart almost jumped out of my chest. I noticed that she was flirting with me, and I asked her about it, and she admitted it. , I told her directly that I was married.
But she said very calmly, "I don't mind this at all. I just like you in my heart. I hope you can like me and love me. I only want this and will not disturb your marriage and family." ”
While she was talking, she also took my hand and held it in hers. Her eyes were so gentle that they could squeeze water. It was hard not to be tempted. After being together with her, she really didn't want anything, she never asked me for anything, and she never relied on me to accompany her after being together for so long.
Some time ago, my wife seemed to know something and she kept a close eye on me. I was afraid of being exposed so I broke up with her. But as soon as the result was mentioned, she said she would jump off the building, and she also said she would send evidence of our relationship to my home. I don’t know why she suddenly changed?
According to this case, let’s do it together Look at the problem!
This third party is very smart. When he first approached the man, he already made it clear that he wanted nothing but feelings.
But is this really the case?
I believe everyone can see it very clearly. Emotions are just a delaying tactic she uses. This is why I say she is very smart.
In my many years of working in the industry, I have encountered many cases of mistresses. Those third parties who say they don’t want anything actually have a purpose!
If she doesn’t tell you about herself Would you be with her if she didn't ask for status or anything like that? Do you dare?
Some third parties really don't have any requirements at the beginning, they just hope that the man will love her well, but later on It will turn into hoping that the other person will always be with you.
Some people do not seek status at first, but hope to be with this man, even secretly. But once all their friends around them have their own marriages, and they have to face the pressure of family members to get married, they themselves As she becomes lonely and lonely, she will feel increasingly unhappy inside.If you are balanced, you will start clamoring for status.
There are also those who are overly in love, just to get a man, and lose themselves in love, but the more they invest, the harder it is to pull away, and find it difficult to accept sharing this man with their original wife. This kind of thing is even more terrifying. I really want to share it with my first wife. When men are together, even if it's in extreme ways, even if they hurt each other, they still get it.
Ten years ago, there was a social news report about a man who cheated on his wife. He originally wanted to break off the relationship with his mistress, but they had been entangled for more than 20 years. She hopes that the man will take time to accompany her every day, hope that the man will pay her wages, and hope that the man will give her a home, otherwise it will harm his family and children. In the end, he was forced to have no other choice. The man couldn't stand it anymore and chose to kill the other party and then surrender.
This case is the same. When the man wanted to break off, the third party disagreed and threatened the other party to jump off the building and sent evidence of their relationship to his home, just to avoid it. When a man leaves, does this go against the idea of ??not wanting anything from the beginning?
I think this is also why men are afraid of meeting a third party who only cares about feelings, but then again, We are all adults. When making every decision, you must carefully consider whether you can bear the consequences of this action. Don't take chances. It will be too late to regret it by then.
