For boys, love means giving in both directions, so that there is equality. But some boys complain that their girlfriends are immature and tired to get along with. They are stubborn when quarreling, do not communicate far away, are difficult to coax, and care little about themselves... It feels like they are doing the work alone, and with such immature people My girlfriend is really tired of getting along with me, what should I do?
1. Distinguish whether she is really immature
There is a theory that most girls will only act immature in front of the people they like and care about, and do some things. I felt stupid before I fell in love, and I felt unreasonable after the breakup. Why? Because she really cares about you. Why bystanders know, because they don't care at all. After a boy is no longer cared about by girls, who will care who he talks to today, let alone get to the bottom of it.
"A girl asked me to go out to play today."
"Go, have fun, and come back later."
Girl, who You like to make trouble with passers-by for no apparent reason. Are you crazy?
As for how to judge whether a girl cares about you or is really immature, you can see if her immaturity is like this in private, or if she is immature in front of everyone and makes it difficult for you to stand up. She is truly mature. Girls will clearly distinguish these occasions and will never let you lose face in front of outsiders.
2. See if your girlfriend is willing to change
If you really realize that your girlfriend is immature, If you are worried about this, you might as well mention it directly to your friends and see how your girlfriend reacts.
1. If she thinks that women are born to be princesses and does things to you to give you face, but you are not as good as her best friend’s boyfriend but you still dare to raise objections, emmmmm, if you are willing to become a princess, no one can stop you, right? .
2. If she understands that she is indeed going too far and is willing to try to change, then you should grow together. You should also listen to her advice. It is unfair for only one party to change. Then relax your mind, encourage more when you make progress, and accept it calmly if there are repetitions.
3. Break up and start a new relationship
Maybe many people think that it is inappropriate to break up with a girlfriend because she is immature. It's a very irrational choice. In this regard, I just want to say under what circumstances you need to break up with an immature girlfriend and start a new relationship:
If you feel tired when you are in love with your girlfriend, there is no need to do so. Much happiness. During this process, you also tried to change her and make her mature, but you found that it was useless. Even if he tried to change himself and try to accommodate her, he still found that it was useless. At this time, the little concern in your love may turn out to be indifference. Her stubbornness, unwillingness to communicate, and difficulty in coaxing her during a quarrel may be due to your immaturity.It seems to be a natural and normal thing for a girlfriend. And at this time, if you don't care about her, and don't apologize first when you quarrel (no matter who is right or wrong), she will feel that she has changed, no longer loves her, and no longer feels sorry for her... Can you still persist in such a relationship?
Love is about giving to each other. If your girlfriend is immature and feels that you should love her and pay for her, you should give in to her in everything, care about her feelings, and pay attention to your own attitude. But she showed nothing to you. I don’t think any man can persist. At this time, why not break up and start a new relationship? Find someone who thinks about you everywhere. Sometimes she even thinks more than you think about her. She cares about everything about you and your feelings. She also knows that you are currently struggling. There are many difficulties in growing up... Wouldn't it be good to start a new relationship like this?
If your girlfriend is immature, it will be very tiring to get along with her. It is recommended that boys sometimes make a decisive decision and stay with their girlfriends. Solve these problems, otherwise you will still suffer in the future.
