Before going on a blind date, we can do some preparations so that we can be more confident and smooth when chatting.
It is important to understand the other party’s basic information. We can get some background information about each other through friend introductions, social media or blind date platforms. In this way, we can mention some common interests or topics in the chat to let the other party feel that we pay attention to and value them.
We can think of some interesting questions or topics so that we can arouse the other party's interest when we chat. For example, we can ask each other about their favorite movies, travel experiences, or future dreams, etc. This not only shows our curiosity, but also provides more content for the chat.
1. Choice of opening remarks
At the beginning of the blind date, it is very important to choose a suitable opening statement. We can choose different methods according to the other person's personality and situation.
If the other person is more outgoing and lively, we can use some humorous opening remarks to break the ice. For example, "I heard you are a very interesting person, I want to see what you are like." This can make the other person feel relaxed and happy.
If the other person is more introverted and shy, we can choose some gentle and friendly opening remarks. For example, "Nice to meet you. I heard that you are very knowledgeable about music, and I am also a music lover." This can make the other person feel understood and accepted.
2. Use of chatting skills
During the blind date, we can use some chatting skills to keep the conversation smooth and interesting.
Active listening is very important. When the other person is talking, we should listen intently and express our concern and interest through body language and responses. This can make the other person feel respected and valued.
We can use open-ended questions to guide the conversation. Open-ended questions can stimulate the other person to think more and answer more, making the conversation more in-depth and meaningful. For example, questions like "What do you think is a happy life?" can trigger the other party to think and share more.
We can also share our stories or experiences so that the other person can understand us better. But be careful not to be too self-centered. Keep a balance and give the other person a chance to share their story.
3. Respect and politeness
In the process of dating, respect and politeness are very important. We should avoid talking about sensitive topics such as politics, religion, or family background. At the same time, we should also respect each other's opinions and viewpoints and not criticize or question easily.
If we don’t know much about a topic or are not interested, we can express it tactfully and move to other topics.. For example, "I don't know much about this topic. Do you have any other interests?" This can avoid awkwardness and conflict.
4. Farewell at the end
When the blind date is about to end, we can choose a suitable way to say goodbye to each other.
We can express our gratitude and appreciation for this blind date. Regardless of whether the chat goes well or not, we should express our sincerity and goodwill. For example, "Nice to meet you, thank you for your company today."
If we are interested in the other person, we can express our willingness to continue the relationship. For example, "I think we had a great time chatting and hope to meet again." This can make the other person feel valued and expected.
We should remain polite and respectful regardless of the outcome. Even if there is no opportunity for further development, say goodbye to the other person in a friendly manner.
Dating is a process of understanding each other, and a good communication foundation can be established through appropriate chatting. Being prepared before a blind date, choosing a suitable opening line, using chatting skills, being respectful and polite, and expressing sincerity and kindness at the end are all important factors in opening up a chat during a blind date. I hope every blind date can go smoothly and happily!
