You are chasing a girl, but unexpectedly the girl tells you that she already has a boyfriend. At this time, many boys may be discouraged. But some girls say that having a boyfriend is a test, and they want to see if a boy will give up on them easily. But it doesn’t rule out that girls say they have a boyfriend because they want you to give up. So is a girl testing you when she says she has a boyfriend? Or am I rejecting you?
1. A girl who says she has a boyfriend is rejection
It is impossible for a girl to pretend to have a boyfriend to test the boy who is pursuing her, but girls will indeed do something similar. Thing: A girl will pretend to have a boyfriend to reject the boy who pursues her. Note, it's a rejection, a complete rejection, the kind of rejection that I don't intend to have anything to do with you from now on. Otherwise, what do you think girls want to test you through?
Suppose a girl is testing you by saying she has a boyfriend, then she wants to see you acting like she thinks she has a boyfriend. What move? Is it possible that you continue to chase her and never let her go, and even ask her fictitious "boyfriend" to give her up to you?
And a boy who clearly knows that a girl has a boyfriend and still doesn’t give up pursuing her can only mean that the boy doesn’t know what is good and what is good, because he is poaching others. People who poach others are stupid, because they forget the negative consequences of this: once you poach someone, it's over. In the future, you will always be afraid that another person will appear and plan to poach you.
People with normal IQs should know to give up at this time and choose to be friends - why, a girl gives up even if she has a boyfriend. The girl who uses this method to test the suitor is Mary Sue Have you read too many novels?
2. Girls say they have a boyfriend who treats you as a backup.
Why do girls say they have a boyfriend who treats you as a backup? It's because in the process of getting along with you, you have always provided an emotional value - to put it more bluntly, you are just a companion to accompany her to spend her leisure time.
Think about it, you are in a different place during the winter vacation and you can't see each other. So your attraction to her at this time is particularly low because you can't see or touch her.
At this time, the relationship between you is more like a sense of companionship rather than a feeling of mutual attraction. This is why so many people say that online dating is unreliable - because when dating online, many people regard spending time together every day as a form of dependence, while in real life the two people have no intersection.
What does this mean? This means that the other party just needs someone to chat with. In offline life, how will you live without the other party?
The establishment of emotions between two people requires the intertwining of each other's lives and the participation of each other.Otherwise, you will become just a pet on each other's mobile phones.
I know that at this time you are still desperate. Even if the girl said she has a boyfriend, you still want to pursue her. Let me finally Let me throw some cold water on you.
When you confessed your love, the other party did not agree directly and said that we would talk about it after school started. At this time, it was basically determined that this person might not be interested in you anymore, or it would be a matter of time before you were rejected. .
Why? Because the most fearful thing about confessing is "let me think twice."
Because two people are together, it means that the previous rhythm and way of life have undergone earth-shaking changes, and the other person will suddenly enter the relationship you are bound to in a carefree state, and start to have a relationship with each other. When two people are responsible, do you think the other person is under a lot of psychological pressure?
Therefore, if the other party does not accept your confession quickly, but tells you that it takes a while to think about it, then the conclusion of your thinking is doomed: reject you.
And this rejection is often difficult to shake, not to mention the girl said she now has a boyfriend. Therefore, stop deceiving yourself. At this time, the girl is most likely telling the truth. Even if it is not the truth, she is rejecting you tactfully and has nothing to do with testing you. I advise you to put it down and move on. No one can be so retarded as to use this method to detect suitors. When a girl says she has a boyfriend, she either tests you or rejects you.
