When we are chasing girls, we often encounter situations where the other party is slow to reply to messages or does not reply to messages. Then after our own questioning, we finally get the answer of "busy" from the other party. Which girl is really good at it? Are you too busy to reply to messages?
Let’s take a look at the actual situation first:
The average time a girl spends touching up her makeup after a meal is 3 minutes on average;
It takes an average of 5 minutes for a girl to order a cup of milk tea in the afternoon;
It only takes 10 seconds for a girl to click on WeChat and reply with an emoji.
So, even if a girl is really busy, might she not even have time to reply to you in a day? The answer is obvious, definitely not.
When girls say "I'm too busy to reply to your message", it may actually be like this: You are When she was busy, I sent her a message. She picked up her phone and looked at it. She felt that "as long as I reply to you, this irrelevant chat will never stop", so she thought about replying to you when she is free.
As a result, she may not be able to think of you when she is free.
Another situation is that she really doesn’t know how to respond to you. She has no interest in you. She knows you are interested in her when you ask her questions like "Have you eaten? Have you slept? What are you doing?" every day, but she really doesn't want to develop this relationship.
So instead of letting you have illusions about her, it is better to simply handle the relationship coldly. When you understand that "she is not really busy, but just doesn't want to associate with you," you will naturally understand the situation wisely. Go away.
She can’t say things like “I don’t have any feelings for you, please stop harassing me.” She is afraid of hurting each other’s face, so she will use the excuse of “busy” as a shield. I hope you can be self-aware.
Think about it, even if a girl is so busy that she takes off, after seeing your message, she really can’t even say " I'm busy, don't you have time to talk later in the evening?"
No, she doesn't want you to disturb him when you are busy, because all business matters are more important than you.
Similarly, she doesn’t want to find you when she is free, because there are too many interesting things worth doing than chatting with you.
So in the world of girls, there is no distinction between "busy or not", only "do I want to get back to you".
In her heart, you are a very important person, so even if she has to go to the toilet, she will take the time to reply to your message. On the contrary, if you are not that important or even a person who irritates her, then sorry, girls are really busy all the time, busy how to avoid your greetings.
In other words, if a girl is really busy and she has feelings for you, then when she is resting, the first person she thinks of is you, and she will take the initiative to tell you "how much she has been feeling lately." "I'm so worried", the implication is to explain to you "I'm really busy, but I still think about you."
But a girl tells you "she is very busy", but you find that she has time to like TikTok, repost Weibo, gossip in group chats, and post a beautiful picture when she gets home. I have time to take selfies and do anything else, but I just don’t have time to reply to your messages.
She said that she was very busy, but she probably didn't believe it herself.
If in your world view, only a reply that lasts for more than half an hour can be called a serious reply, then girls really may not be able to do it. After all, everyone is very busy at work. You are very busy and no one has as much time as you do to flirt with girls.
But if your request is just that "the other party can reply to you after seeing the message, even if it is an emoticon", or after saying that you are busy and can take the initiative to chat with you when you are free, then this is absolutely There will not be the problem of "too busy to reply" - because it only takes a few seconds to reply to your message. For those who are reluctant to spend this time, there is only one truth:
Don't think about it, she I don’t want to talk to you at all, I don’t even want to be friends with you.
So girls use the excuse of being "busy" to not reply to your WeChat messages frequently and for a long time. From your own perspective, there are two reasons:
1. Your chat The topic is not attractive at all
2. Girls are not interested in you at all, but you still insist on chatting
All in all, girls are sometimes very busy, but if they really care about you, they will reply to you later and explain their situation, but they will never fail to reply.
If a girl really has no interest in you, or even rejects you, then there is no need to put a hot face on a cold butt. Improving your personal value and rebuilding your own attractiveness should be your top priority.
