Communication is the bridge between lovers to maintain their relationship, but there are only so many topics to talk about. As the time spent together increases, it will inevitably become boring. So how do couples usually chat without getting bored?
How do couples chat without getting bored?
Couples have a very close relationship. If two people chat, they can bring fun to each other, so both parties must chat on the same channel.
Only when two people on the same channel are chatting can they understand what the other person is saying. There will be no chicken-to-duck situation, and communication will be smoother. The second is that both parties must have a common topic. During the chat, both parties had something to say.
In this way, there will be no silence, and it can better promote the exchange of ideas between the two parties. Third, both lovers should pay attention to increasing their vocabulary, so that both parties can express their thoughts and feelings more accurately and understand each other better.
There is also the use of open chat. We often say that whoever talks to death is talking about certain things. Topic stopper. Their appearance can often kill the conversation in a short time. Even if the person he is chatting with keeps creating topics, she can easily end the topic and keep in an infinite loop, making people have no desire to continue the conversation. If we want to be charming when chatting with ourselves, we should not use closed sentences when speaking. For example, you just came back from eating out with your friends, and your boyfriend sent a message asking you if you were home? How was your day today? If it's okay for you to answer directly, then your boyfriend probably won't be interested in continuing the conversation. Just reply once at most. At this time, you may still feel that your boyfriend does not understand the style. In fact, it is mainly due to your own communication style.
The correct answer should be that I think the taste is average. Maybe my expectations are too high, but their food is still It's quite unique. We can try it next time. This way your boyfriend will continue to chat with you, have the desire to continue chatting with you, and have many topics to talk about. Of course, when we are chatting, don’t be a eloquent person. You must make your boyfriend feel comfortable chatting with you, otherwise it will be particularly awkward while chatting. Even if you talk about a topic you are not familiar with, you can Use open-ended answers to guide him to express his own opinions. For example, you can say, I want to hear your thoughts, or you can say that I don’t know much about it, but it sounds interesting. In this way, others will have a sense of accomplishment and a great desire to continue chatting with you.
Finally, the most important thing is to be a thoughtful person in life and think about problems from the other person’s perspective.Improve your emotional intelligence.
