Of course boys want to establish a relationship with the girl they like as soon as possible. When a girl asks us what our relationship is now, she will definitely want to answer that it is a romantic relationship. But if you don't understand the meaning of the girl's question in advance, you may be rude to the other party. In the end, the relationship will not be confirmed, but it will scare the girl away, which is not good. Let’s analyze what it means when a girl asks what our relationship is now? What should I do?
1. Girls like you
If you get along well with a girl and the girl gives you good feedback, then she may like you. In this case, the girl will ask us what we are doing now. The relationship is actually about wanting to hear your statement and whether you like her that much, because she is also afraid that she is wishful thinking. If your answer does not satisfy her, she will probably withdraw in time. In this case, there are two ways to answer:
1. If you don’t like the girl and just regard her as a friend or buddy, but the girl likes you, so I ask you what is our relationship now. In this case, you can usually just say that the relationship is just friends, and don't give her any hope of being together. Otherwise, if you really have a girl you like in the future, it might cause trouble in your relationship. And it’s not very gentlemanly to hang on to a girl if you don’t like it!
2. In addition, the girl likes you, and you like her too. . If a girl asks you about our current relationship, either admit it boldly, or use a high-emotional intelligence answer to throw the question to the girl, such as:
"What do you think our relationship is? We are What's the relationship?"
"I'll tell you, we will definitely be a couple in the future!"
"I like you hiding it so deeply, you can see it. !"
"Since you have taken the initiative, of course we are in a relationship between a man and a woman!"
"Actually, I also want to ask you this question. How about we confirm the relationship today? Come down!"
"I didn't expect you to be so eager to be my girlfriend. In this case, I'm happy to accept it."
Prove it with actions (kiss her or hug her). ), everything is left unsaid.
2. A girl rejects you tactfully
If a girl finds out that you like her, but she doesn’t like you, she will also test it with the question "What is our relationship now?" Check the boy's attitude to see if he has any misunderstandings about the relationship between the two, so that she can correct it in time.
In this case, if the boy realizes the girl’s intention to refuse and answers wisely that they are friends, then the girl will also I won’t continue to ask. If a boy doesn't understand what a girl means and answers the question about an ambiguous relationship, then a better girl might explain to you that you are a nice person, but we are not suitable.(Being given a good guy card), the impatient girl will simply ignore you with a black face.
Therefore, when a boy meets a girl and asks us what our relationship is now, don’t be too happy. Maybe the girl doesn’t just ask you because she likes you. She may also want to reject you. .
