Dating is a traditional way of making friends, where you learn about each other’s interests, hobbies, personality traits and other information through chatting. If you want the other person to fall in love with you involuntarily, then you need to use topics skillfully in the chat to guide the other person to feel good and interested.
1. Talk about common interests
People always like to interact with people who have common interests, because they can find topics and improve mutual understanding. In a blind date chat, you can take the initiative to ask about the other person’s interests and hobbies, and express your love and understanding of these things. For example:
"I heard that you like to travel, and I am also a person who loves traveling. I recently went to Thailand and it felt very Great. Have you ever been there? ”
“I see a lot of music-related content on your Weibo. I am also a music fan. You have listened to some relaxing songs recently. No recommendations? ”
By talking about common interests, you can get closer to each other and let the other person feel the tacit understanding and similarities between you.
2. Show your strengths
In a blind date chat, you need to show your strengths and charm so that the other person can feel your attraction. These advantages can be your talents, qualities, experiences, etc. For example:
"I've been learning a new skill recently and found it very interesting. Have you ever thought about learning something new?"
"I once went to a very beautiful place The place and the scenery there are unforgettable. If I have the chance, I would like to go there again.”
By showing your strengths, you can make the other person feel your confidence and charm, thereby creating a good impression.
3. Use humor to adjust the atmosphere
During a blind date chat, sometimes you will encounter situations where you are embarrassed or have nothing to say. At this time, you can use humor to adjust the atmosphere and relieve tension. For example:
"We just chatted for so long and didn't even ask you what you like to eat. Am I too rude? How about I treat you to a big meal next time?"
< p>"I think the atmosphere of our chat is a bit like an interview. Do you think so too? How about we introduce ourselves and get to know each other better?"By using humor, you can resolve embarrassment and tension and let the other person feel your sense of humor and fun.
4. Express sincere concern
In a blind date and chat, you need to show sincere concern and consideration to let the other person feel your warmth and kindness. For example:
"I heard that you have been under a lot of pressure at work recently. Is there anything you want to talk about? If necessary, I can chat with you."
"I know you have been under great pressure recently. I'm sick. Are you okay? Do you want me to go see you?Looking at you? ”
By expressing sincere concern, you can make the other person feel your warmth and kindness, and thus develop a good impression.
5. Give praise in a timely manner
In When chatting on a blind date, complimenting each other in a timely manner can increase mutual affection, but be careful not to be too exaggerated or hypocritical. For example: "Your smile is really charming and makes me feel good." Your enthusiasm and energy. ”
“I think your thinking is very clear and you can see the essence of the problem. This is a very important quality. ”
By giving compliments in a timely manner, you can make the other person feel your appreciation and recognition, and thus develop a good impression.
When chatting on a blind date, you need to be careful not to be too pushy or deliberate. Maintain a natural and genuine attitude and let the other person feel your sincerity and kindness. Only in this way can the other person fall in love with you.
