Although "Uh-huh" seems to be a word of approval, if a girl always replies to you with "Uh-huh" when chatting, she may not be agreeing with you, but rather perfunctory. How should I reply to her in this situation?
1. Establish commonality in the chat process</ h2>
The reason why a girl keeps using "hmm" to deal with you means that your topic is difficult to get her interested in replying. If you want a girl to be interested in your topic, you need to find a suitable entry point. point, and this entry point is the commonality. For example:
Boy: This is quite interesting. (Share a nice song to girls) Expand the topic
Girls: (No reply)
Boys: Are you busy?
Girls: Yeah ( Girls are not very interested in what you say)
Boys: Take a look at these watches, which one is more attractive? (Send Taobao pictures at the same time) Find the entry point
Girl: The second one, why are you asking me this? (Arousing the girl’s interest)
Boy: It’s okay. It’s my mom’s birthday in a few days. I want to buy something for my mom
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Boys: You women know women better. Which one do you think is more suitable for your mother?
Girls: No. The second one looks more calm;
Boy: Oh, but why do I think the first one is more beautiful? It’s very girly; (refuting the girl’s point of view and stimulating the girl’s emotions)
< p> Girls: What do you want to consider is your mother, or is she a girl?Boys: Yes, my mother looks young, and she is very beautiful...
Boys : I remember that last time on her birthday, I gave her a lipstick. She was so happy that she would say to everyone around the world, "Did you see it? This is the lipstick my son bought me. It's pretty good." You praise me for being filial and considerate, and for being my lover in my previous life, which makes me feel embarrassed...
Girl: Hahaha, then your mother is so cute.
Boys: What kind of person is your mother?
Girls: My mother and I are not as close as you and your mother.
In this chat, we first test the girl and throw out an entry point, first ask if the other party is there, usually girls at this time The attitude will not be small. Next, you need to find a suitable topic to start with, ask the girl which watch is good-looking, and then explain the purpose of the gift to the girl. Lay the groundwork, and then introduce the topic you want to introduce, so that the girl understands that this boy is very good. Thoughtful, from thisTo establish connections through commonalities.
Of course, the establishment of commonality in chatting only makes you and the girl familiar with each other, makes the girl no longer so strange to you, and reduces the number of perfunctory replies she makes. If you want a girl to stop being perfunctory, you still need to make her interested in you, so you need a second skill:
2. Common hobbies in chat
If you want to To make a girl interested in you, you need to know more about the girl's preferences, such as what interests and hobbies she has, where she often goes, what kind of songs she likes to listen to, what her ideals are, and what she wants to do in the future. life, who is the idol, height, weight and body measurements.
As long as it is about her information, the more you know, the easier it will be to find the entry point in the chat. For example:
Background: When I see a girl’s post at night, I like it first and then chat with her;
Boy: It’s late at night, why don’t you go to bed?</ p>
Girl: Not very sleepy
Boy: Let me ask you a question. You said, if you are alone now, sleeping soundly and snoring, but you can't sleep, what would you do?
Girl:......
Boy: I have been struggling for a long time, thinking about whether to record him
Girl: Haha, you are so good
p>Boy: Oh, I want to sleep but I can’t sleep. Do you know how painful it is?
Girl: Haha. Snoring is really annoying
Boy: I won’t bullshit you anymore, I’m going to bed
Girl: Go to sleep, good night
Boy: Let’s go to bed It would be nice to change it
During this chat, we first checked the girl’s updates to understand her mood at this time, and then asked what she was doing at night. The girl said she couldn’t sleep, so we For the topic, the issues surrounding the trouble of snoring were advanced layer by layer, and some interesting and informative topics were slowly introduced. Then we chatted more deeply and the girl became interested in us and took the initiative to say good night.
