Recently, while chatting with friends, the topic of pursuing women came up, and everyone found it quite intriguing. Honestly, sometimes what women say can be really perplexing. For instance, when she says, "I don't want to be in a relationship right now," it might not mean she truly doesn't want to, but rather she wants to see if you genuinely like her. This kind of subtext really requires careful consideration.
I remember a time when my friend Xiao Li was pursuing a girl who always said, "I'm really busy right now, I don't have time for a relationship." Xiao Li took it at face value and thought she really didn't want to be in a relationship. It was only later that he found out she was actually testing him. If Xiao Li had been able to read this subtext at the time, he might have succeeded in winning her over much sooner.
Another time, another friend of mine, Xiao Wang, was pursuing a girl who always said, "You're a really nice person, but we're not compatible." Xiao Wang thought she was rejecting him, but later he realized she was actually hinting that he needed to be more proactive. If Xiao Wang had been able to read this subtext, he might have also succeeded in winning her over.
Therefore, pursuing women really requires understanding their subtext. Sometimes, what they say isn't meant to be taken literally, but rather they want to see if you truly like them and are willing to make an effort for them. If you can read these subtexts, winning over your dream girlfriend isn't that difficult.
Of course, understanding subtext is just the first step; the key is to genuinely and sincerely treat her well. Women are very sensitive and can sense whether you truly like them or not. If you're just playing around, even if you understand all the subtexts, you won't be able to win her over.
In conclusion, pursuing women is an art that requires dedication and effort. I hope my sharing can be helpful to everyone, and I wish you all the best in winning over your dream girlfriends!